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Wilson
73 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 51
R U my last first kiss?
I'm in a great place right now, secure, content, surrounded by a beautiful family, great friends and living in one of the most beautiful destinations on the planet...San Francisco. I'm kind, sweet, and romantic. Chivalry still exists in my world. I'm at a stage in my life that says be joyous and happy while there is still time. I need my life partner, I know you're out there.
Thomas
71 • Ventura, California, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 60
Looking for a life partner wherever she may be.
Retired pensioner looking to relocate possibly to a south Asian country. I am a yoga teacher and swimmer who surfs when his travels allow. Former construction estimator and project manager. After college I started in construction from being a carpenter to ending career as a project manager and estimator. Love dogs and the environment. 🙏🏻
Mr. Biggs
51 • Riverside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 48
Looking to meet a friend first
I’m a man of faith and a father to two adult sons—those are the things that define me. My work takes me around the world, but the travel isn't the priority; building a solid life at home is. I’m a strategist who knows how to lead, but I have no ego—I’ll pivot the second there’s a better idea. I value trust, a glass of bourbon, and a partner who wants to be a real teammate. I’m a great cook and even better at making the right person my main priority. Let’s see where the conversation goes.
Jackson
31 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Let’s See Where This Goes
I’m someone who values honesty, good conversations, and small moments that end up meaning a lot. I love learning new things, spending time with people I care about, and finding joy in simple stuff. If you’re real, respectful, and can hold a conversation, we’ll probably get along.
Kevin
59 • Anaheim, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
If you are a freelancer i am not interested !!! .................. If you are a cam girl I am not interested !!! .................. I report, I block all scams and BS people !!! ................... Moving to Thailand in September 2025. Who wants to
Ed
61 • Newark, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 69
Looking to get MARRIED TRUE L♡VE♡♡♡ FOR EVER
I AM A TRUE ROMANTIC PERSON DO SPECIAL THINGS FOR THE WOMAN I AM WITH I LIKE HARLEY DAVISIONS MOTOR CYCLES OLD CARS LICENSE FROM MOTOR CYCLES TO AIRCRAFT LONGSHERMAN I AM A A MAN MACANIC EQUIPMENT OPERATER I AM A 15105526025 CELL AREA ARTIC GOOD TAST
Benjamin
43 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 45
Looking for a Meaningful Connection 💕
Hi! I’m a loyal, honest, and friendly guy with a great sense of humor. I live in California and work in creative fields like writing and multimedia. When I’m not working, I enjoy exploring new foods (especially pizza), creating music, and learning ab
sebastian
34 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 43
Could you be the one?
Hello, My name is Sebastian, and i am on this site looking for potentially the love of my life. I have my own house, my own car, a very great job, and i am looking for a beautiful lucky lady to spend my life with. That is the only thing i am missing from my life, a beautiful, loyal lady next to me
alex
64 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Kind & stable gentleman looking for a true love
... A good hearted gentleman, originally from Canada. I'm a man of depth & substance. I'm considered to be emotionally secure, financially stable, intelligent, wise, easy going & a good communicator. I'm a divorced homeowner with a pretty calm lifestyle. I enjoy the movies (usually a romantic comedy), the theatre once in awhile, the beach (especially at sunset), dinner with friends, a Jazz club, some TV, a romantic evening at home.....I'm well travelled, yet have some exotic places still to explore. Please note that a mistake was made on my age...I am actually 57 years old. My posted photos are all recent.
Johnny
34 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 38
Welcome to my page
Hello, thanks for viewing my profile. I was born and raised in the U.S. I am entrepreneur minded and live on my own. I have a bachelors degree and an associates degree aswell. I enjoy running, going outside in nature and staying healthy. I am very open when it comes to trying new food and experiencing new cultures.
Stephen
70 • Palm Springs, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 58
In June 2019 I visited VN and I loved the people
I've discovered that there was this ancient Yogic Philosophy very similar to my belief that existed throughout ancient Asia. This intrigues me. I stayed at the Silverland Hotel in HCM. I've found, and folks tell me, that they feel good when they are around me. I have learned to treat my lady with respect, love, caring and I hope she doesn't mind my teasing. I'm a treasure if you have the eye to see. I've lived/volunteered in India and Nepal where I've studied yoga and meditation. One thing about me that you will find is that I'm happy and very 'centered' and I find this nice quiet, peaceful and serene place inside of myself. I love Asia, and especially Asian ladies, with their innate elegance and nice gentle way. I am a storyteller. I love to tell stories that have a profound meaning and that helps people to feel good about themselves and others..My philosophy-of-life is based on Yoga. I am a published author and accomplished public speaker and teacher. I've lived a good life. I'm successful and I enjoy life. My kids are grown and on their own and maybe now it is time to look for some adventure in life with a lovely lady as my partner and sweet lover.. I am funny with a keen wit. Who knows what the future holds but walking together arm in arm with you the future will look beautiful, and full of Love & happiness. I've become intrigued by the very ancient history of Vietnam which seems similar to my own beliefs.
Jai
55 • Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 24
SEEKING LIFE PARTNER! NO LDR PLEASE!
Am Easy going person, who has seen life through good and bad times. I live in California and look for a companion who IS WILLING TO RELOCATE AND LIVE OUTSIDE PHILIPPINES. WILL TREAT HER WITH RESPECT, LOVE AND MAKE SURE I GIVE HER MORE THAN WHAT S
Elijah
45 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Seeking Female who is Fit, Friendly, & Cooperative
I am an adventurous male. I have spent my life working in the fields of communications technologies and the biochemical sciences. I enjoy the great outdoors, hiking, camping, fishing, and hunting. And in contrast I also enjoy the finer things life has to offer in the areas of travel accommodations, luxury transportation, and fine dining. I will never miss an opportunity to learn something new. For me the appreciation of all of the beauty that surrounds me is a quality of life that should not be missed.
Mike
62 • Folsom, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Laid-Back, Loyal, and Always Ready for a Laugh
Hello! I'm a laid-back, loyal man who knows what he's looking for. I believe in treating a woman with respect, making her laugh, and building a secure future together. My friends would tell you I'm the guy who always shows up, and that loyalty extend
Todd
58 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 58
Looking for the one
Hello Ladies, Ni hao ma. My name is Todd, I am 57 divorced dad of 1 adult daughter. Looking for my pretty asian lady to have a relationship with. I am looking for ladies already here in California. I have had online relationships before and the lady was never able to get the Visa to come to USA. I am in San Diego, which is a beautiful City. I live a little east of the city in a country area. I have 2 dogs that are bigger, A Golden retriever and a lab/shepherd mix that are friendly. So i am looking for an attractive asian lady, that wants to be loved, you need to speak English pretty well. I am a giving and loving man but i want the same in my partner. I love affection and closeness and cuddles. I look forward to meeting you.
Richie
69 • Riverside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 65
A Strong gentle teddy bear who values a good hug.
I am retired and planning to travel throughout the USA for 1-2 years in my motorhome starting end of 2026, I will be looking for a smaller city where I like to buy a house and move out of California, it's just too expensive to stay here any longer on retirement income. And I have lived here for 60 years and I am ready to make a change. Please be at least 48 years old and not have any school age children living at home. Our initial lifestyle would not support school age children with all the traveling. Looking for a country girl or a city girl that has a dream to live a simple minimalist lifestyle in the countryside. And is looking for a peaceful slower pace of life. I am open and honest, with the ability to listen patiently to my wife. I invite the discussion about anything that will improve the relationship. I am open to correction and will do my best to improve any behavior to bring about peace and harmony. I am a sensitive guy with a big heart that does not believe random arguing ever solves a problem. My hearts desire in to find a special women that has the same desire of wanting to be loved and to return love without drama or chaos. and is committed to the relationship to solve any and all issues quickly and peacefully and also believes in the healing power of forgiveness after problems encountered in the marriage. believes the secret to a good marriage is accomplished by "Slow to anger and quick to forgive" I am looking to find a woman here on this Cupid website that is good natured and adventurous that would like to accompany me on this journey.
Steven
56 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 54
Seeking my soul mate. Let's chat and find out
I'm not a member and can't see your likes, message me please. i love to travel and would love to meet my Vietnamese partner for a long term committed relationship. I will be in Ho Chi Minh City later this year and think we could meet for lunch and
Danny
58 • Redwood, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Hello everyone,
I enjoy many things I'm happy all the time. I enjoy exercise travel. music, art sports. I love being by the water I don't have any children. I am retired. I own my own home. I. Had. my own business for many years. now I'm ready to enjoy life with someone special. I enjoy nights at home as well. I am a true romantic at heart. I love to make my Girlfriend friend lover feel special.
Luis
48 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Serious Relationship Seeking Marriage
I am a peaceful and relaxed man who values integrity, loyalty, and a good sense of humor. I believe in God and strive to follow the right path in all aspects of life, always aiming to do things properly and with sincerity. Honesty and faith guide my actions, and I treat others with kindness and respect. I appreciate deep conversations, laughter, and the simple joys of life. While I have a calm and easygoing nature, I am also strong in my principles and dedicated to those I care about. I believe that love should be built on trust, commitment, and mutual understanding. I am looking for a meaningful relationship that leads to marriage, where both partners support, respect, and bring out the best in each other.
James
73 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 65
Before you write to me, please read my profile.
I am retired and leaving the USA in October. I am not an ATM or Apple Card. Do not ask!! If you are full of thicks, games, and whatever, I am gone!! I am looking for a wife!! 1. I am divorced. How long have I been on the site? I have been here for 1 month, and the body starts to kick in. Why did I not listen to the signs and language? I admit that I screwed up also. I have been single for 8 years because I wanted to complete projects. 3. I have a daughter who is 40 and has been married for 15 years. She and her long-time husband have 4 children. Are adults instant gratification beasts? YES. Most men and women are instant gratification fools. Men look at ladies for the first time in sexual matters; Women look at men as married or money material. What a trade-off! My grandmother told me she would rather be an old man, darling, than a young man fool. I was raised by both grandmothers in Oakland, California. Love is the greatest gift to give or receive. Yes, I learned from previous mistakes and relationships. There is no fun in going from lady to lady. Everyone wants something. Remember when parents stayed married for 50 years or more? How can we improve our relationships today? Some of you may say that it is a whole different subject. I am 72. I lost hearing in my right ear, and I have a cochlear implant. My oldest daughter died in an auto accident 25 years ago. Yes, I am still trying to get over it. I have been on several dating sites and to cities after a long search; I realized that I am looking for a wife or a lifetime partner. Write to me about yourself and your goals, not about sex, or show me your sexy photo(s), or your wealth. My apologies, it is a big turn-off. If you are serious, we will get there on time. I have been asked, Have I ever been in love before? YES, I have and am ready for that feeling again. I am a seasoned gentleman with education, lifetime experiences, integrity, respect, spontaneity, wit, and a caring nature, as well as a romantic side and a sense of humor that sometimes makes me act like a big kid. I am open-minded and always curious about learning something new. You are always young enough to understand more. I traveled to the Philippines, Thailand, Japan, Mexico, Colombia, South Korea, Hong Kong, and Singapore. I will admit to thinking about how I am looking forward to going to Ghana, Kenya, and South Africa.
Raymond
59 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65
Hi there! I'm excited to meet
I believe in the little moments that make life special—the quiet mornings with coffee, the laughter shared with a partner, and the deep connection that comes with understanding each other. I’m looking for someone who values love, respect, and companionship. I enjoy meaningful conversations, cozy nights in, and creating beautiful memories together. If you’re looking for someone to share life’s quiet joys with, I’d love to hear from you.
aaron
57 • Santa Cruz, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Well,
Where does one start? First, only interested in a single Vietnamese woman. Western and any other women will be blocked. If you ask me for money early in communication, I will block you. Botz, please. If you have gotten this far and want a real relationship please read further. Are you kind, smart, funny and curious? Just looking for a woman whose appearance is casual, not too made up with respect to make up, confident in who she is. Can be happy wearing shorts, jeans or dressed up. Have been told that I possess a good sense of humor, am sympathetic, caring, and can be serious when needed. Reside in Sunny Santa Cruz, California, in the USA. (near the Pacific Ocean) live a clean life, no drugs no tattoos!
Jason
58 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 50
Searching for that special women
I'm down to earth honest, loyal, affectionate, communicative, positive and strive to become a better person. I try to focus on the solution rather than the problem, friends tell me I'm caring with a good heart, fun-adventurist at times, dinning out at new restaurant trying new dishes, weekend get a way, long drives. Also enjoy lazy days staying home cooking a great meal or watching a good movie. I don't drink or smoke i try to live a healthy lifestyle but not perfect i like sweets sometimes ha-ha.
Pete
62 • Oakland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Looking for long term relationship
I’m an ex-athlete who has been in the tech industry for many years. Divorced 3 years ago with two teenage children who are great students and athletes. I’m very monogamous and prefer a relationship that way. I am NOT interested in seeing multiple people at the same time. I’m also not interested in cyber s*x or anything like that. I prefer open, honest and direct relationships and see how they go.
Paul
31 • Rancho Santa Margarita, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 39
Looking for a wife
I am a single engineer living in Southern California where it is beautiful and work alone. I have been alone for years now and know I am missing out. I don’t want to be alone any more. I am ready to share what I have with someone very special. Is tha
Dutch
41 • El Cajon, California, United States
Seeking: Male 18 - 40
Mr Naked Bear looking for his Bunnie
Easy going adventurous. Love to go explore new places, try new things mostly outdoorsy. But at times like to just chill at home with a good video game or movie. Also love taking train trips. To see the country. I can be a great lover
Bach
35 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38
A curious mind
I am career focused and always striving to be the best version of myself. I am curious about the world and love to travel to new places to learn and experience new cultures. I believe that we should accumulate experience, rather than things. Add me on IG @bachvo
Robby
53 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Happy, funny gentleman
Tôi là người khá năng động và luôn yêu thích thể thao cũng như những hoạt động ngoài trời. Tôi cũng thích xem thể thao, và dạo gần đây tôi thường bơi vài lần mỗi tuần, ngoài ra còn chơi tennis và pickleball. Tôi thích đi bộ đường dài, chạy bộ và tìm những cách thú vị để luôn vận động. Với tôi, duy trì sự năng động mỗi ngày là một phần của cuộc sống. Bên cạnh đó, tôi cũng có một mặt khá trầm lắng và thích những khoảng thời gian yên bình. Tôi thực hành Thiền Siêu Việt (Transcendental Meditation), và điều đó đã trở thành một phần mà tôi thực sự trân trọng trong cuộc sống. Tôi là người tò mò và thích tìm hiểu về con người — điều gì khiến họ suy nghĩ, cảm nhận và trở thành chính mình. Tôi luôn hứng thú với việc khám phá tính cách của mọi người, thậm chí cả những điều thú vị như xem chỉ tay. Có lẽ tôi khá nhạy bén trong việc cảm nhận con người và những điều đang diễn ra xung quanh. Nhìn chung, tôi thích một cuộc sống thú vị và nhiều màu sắc — luôn năng động, học hỏi những điều mới, dành thời gian cho gia đình và bạn bè, và quan trọng nhất là tận hưởng những khoảnh khắc và trải nghiệm mà cuộc sống mang lại. Tôi tin rằng cuộc sống sẽ ý nghĩa hơn khi có một người đặc biệt để cùng chia sẻ những điều đó.
Phil
62 • Encinitas, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 51
Interesting
I write, farm coffee on my coffee plantation. I'm wise, experienced, intelligent and educated, Simple not pretentious. I love music and nature. Live in paradise in Costa Rica, also at the beach in California and near the Rocky Mountains in Colorado.
GARY
71 • Huntington Beach, California, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60
A happy, active, loving, retired Fire Chief
An easy going, educated, loyal, honorable, respectful, considerate, compassionate, empathetic and affectionate man. Live in a beautiful 3 bedroom/4 bathroom beach home in California. Seriously looking for a long term relationship with my best friend and lover.
Bobby
64 • Poway, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 49
Small lonely ship in ocean seeks small lonely ship
Nice retired hard working sensitive positive upbeat caring affectionate guy seeking nice girl with similar traits with shared interests of travel, gardening, having fun and sharing life’s joys. I’ll think about this more and update with more later. I may change my profile often with added information about me.
Andrew
44 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 42
Nerdy Adventures Loading …
I’m nerdy compassionate guy with a sense of humor and searching for deep meaningful connections. I’m passionate about technology work and coaching teams to realize ambitious goals. I work as an engineer for a really cool technology company that has positive energy :) I also love cooking, music/jazz, hiking/camping, training dogs, and Rick & Morty fan lore. When I’m not working in California I’m exploring, playing competitive poker, video gaming, and learning about eastern cultures and different social norms around the world. I’m fascinated with mindfulness, meditation, and reaching an ever more meaningful life.
Albert
56 • Westminster, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Seeking a relationship with Asian women only!
Always open to new friendships calm cool collective easy going down to earth humble simple practical shy quiet guy but very interested in meeting someone serious and starting a serious relationship and family etc Very interested in Asian women
DTFrance
40 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 34
A sunny day; a rainy day 😊
I was living in Kyoto but since the pandemic splitting my time between California and Japan. Not entirely sure what the future will hold. I'm willing to be influenced by someone of pure heart and spirit for adventure. I teach movement and yoga. A great fan of dance and a very kinetic person. Spending time outdoors. Big fluffy dogs. Swimming. Rain. Find me on IG!
Mark
57 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 44
To all beautiful lady who message me. I join platinum once I sure site is legit. You be patient and I message u back if I like u. Super fit old guy just looking around. Jason action movie type type. You don't have to worry about me being fat an

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