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Colden
69 Gastonia, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 63
Living situation: Live with kids
This is my introduction to the women on this site who are looking for a good man. That would be me. My name is Colden and I have contacted some of you before rewriting my profile. My mission remains the same? Find a partner to grow with me and become a part of my family without having to give up her Vietnamese heritage. I was curious at first about the responses I received from women on this site. Then, I did the unthinkable.. I looked to see what the other men wrote and I was surprised! First there are little if any black men online. The other was the men, most of whom come from other countries, and many said they were looking for one night stands, companionship while they are on location in your country; others say that they are working in Vietnam and want someone to keep them company? No wonder you are not trusting of words typed in this tiny little box? What makes me any different? I do not want your money, I'm 10,000 miles away so quick sex is not a factor. I do not work in Vietnam and I do not plan a trip there, unless it is to meet that special person and her family. I can lie like so many others and tell you how great I am, but I'm not perfect. I can promise you the sun moon and stars, but I can only give you a small piece of the planet God has given me. I can tell you a lot of things that can not be true, but probably will spark your curiosity in me or my rhetoric. I will not do it, because I'm real. Many of you have stories of pain and trickery.Painful stories of some guy who promised you the universe, stole money, your hearts and self-esteem, then left you vulnerable and fearful of people. Some of you wrote back, "why me Colden?" My response is always simple, "You have a beautiful smile, you have a pretty face, something interesting in the words you wrote. Many of you say the same things that make all the you sound very similar. I'm looking for that person who is unique, different, someone who is will to remain who she is. Not willing to compromise her integrety, self-esteem heritage . Hold on to her Vietnam tradition and values wear her Ao Dai proudly and beautifully. Please send me photos without Glamour shots. That is not what you look like first thing in the morning or right before you go sleep. I want to see the real you. I want to hear from your heart. Colden

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