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Chad is from United States

Chad (34)

Please read my profile carefully. San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal
Weight: 127 kg (279 lb)

Please read my profile carefully. I'm providing a lot of detail so we can more easily understand how compatible we are. Short version: seeking a sweet, submissive, smart, sexy spouse. Long version: I am here to find a wife. I'd love to make new friends as well--feel free to write me--but the main reason I'm here is to find that one woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I am cautious. I want to get to know the right person very well before getting married. It could take months or even a year or more for me to be ready, to have the money and vacation days, to fly around to the other side of the world to meet you. Be patient. Let's get to know each other thoroughly through chat, emails, video and voice calls so we know we are right for each other. I want to have children and to raise them well. I want to marry the right woman, a woman who will be a good wife and a good mate. I am intelligent. I was accepted into Mensa, the high IQ society. I am not a rocket scientist, but I enjoy intelligent conversation, and I want intelligent children. My wife needs to be of above average intelligence. She should have a medium or dark skin tone, to help balance out my fair-skinned genes. I am agnostic. I was raised as a conservative Christian, but have come to believe that it is impossible to say what religion, if any, is correct. I try to be open minded. An agnostic woman would be best, or Christian. Other religions may be acceptable as long as she is not very religious. She must be kind, sweet, tender-hearted. There is no sexier trait a woman can have than a loving heart. She should be a good communicator. I do not mean that she has to be completely fluent in English, although that is nice. I mean that she should be patient, open, a good listener. She should be easy to talk to. We should be able to talk about anything or everything and to work out problems by discussing them frankly with each other. She must be absolutely honest, even when she thinks it is not what I want to hear. Of course she should be polite--there's no need to deliberately say hurtful things--but honesty and integrity are vital. I can't accept a woman who lies, tricks or deceives. In that vein, I know there are a lot of fakes and scammers online. I will NOT send you money. Talk to me if you are looking for a relationship, not cash. I am physically affectionate. I like to hold the girl, to cuddle her, kiss her, play with her hair. You should enjoy such affection. I prefer to do the touching, not be the one being touched. I like many things: girls with long hair, girls in high heels. Girls with sweet voices that are pleasant to listen to when she talks or sings. Girls that like to cook. What about me? Let's see. My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTJ. My top 5 Strengthsfinder results are Ideation, Input, Futuristic, Individualization, Analytical. I have a quirky sense of humor. I tend to have big dreams. I like to analyze things or make detailed plans. I enjoy being in charge. I want to change the world. I have good traits and bad traits. I am intelligent, tall and--I like to think--in overall good health. I am a software engineer, which is good work. I try to be intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious. I own my own house. I am a confident leader and public speaker. Many women think my deep voice is sexy. I am committed to saving my virginity for marriage. I am creative and analytical. I am affectionate. I like to think I am more emotionally mature than many people, but I'm far from perfect. I believe in open, honest communication. I like to think I am gentle, kind and patient with women. I do not commit crimes. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke. I do not drink. I do not swear. I like cats. I am a second degree black belt in the martial art of Tang Soo Do. I believe that a relationship takes work. That a relationship is a commitment for man and woman to work hard at loving each other. Nothing is ever perfect and there are always obstacles. But if we work together, we can have a love that lasts a lifetime. I have many faults as well. I am pale-skinned and freckled, so pale it is impossible for me to tan. Many consider that unattractive. I am young, but already getting some gray hairs. I am quite nearsighted, and need my glasses to do just about anything. I am overweight, but I have made significant changes in my lifestyle to eat and drink better and exercise more, so I expect to get fitter soon. I have made a number of mistakes in my life. My financial situation is not as great as it should be, although I have been improving it substantially in 2015 and expect to do even better in 2016. I'm not a fan of dogs. I don't always get things done as soon as I would like. I am not very close to my family, although I do talk to and see them occasionally. Sometimes I eat unhealthy foods. I find it difficult to relate to most Americans. I can be shy and introverted, often preferring to be alone. Many women do not find my looks or personality attractive. I can have difficulties managing my time for maximum productivity. I think about sexual matters a lot and discuss them too much for the taste of some women. I share these things to avoid surprises, to help you better know if you would enjoy being with me. My goals in life? I will continue to work as a software engineer. I will work off my credit card debt and save up money. I will work on my business goals. I have many business plans. Right now, I want to work on a website to teach people public speaking skills and to make that profitable enough that I can leave my day job and devote more time to business. Then I will work on more businesses. I want to marry and have kids once I am in a good financial position. I want to move somewhere--I don't know where, I need to figure out where in the US I most want to live--and build my dream house and have children and profitable businesses there. You might wonder: why do I want to look overseas for a wife? It's not just because I've had poor luck with American women. America's immigration laws are overly strict. It is hard to get into the US. The best way is to marry an American. More foreign women in the US means more cultural diversity, more genetic diversity. It means Americans will better understand the world around them. For women from poor countries, it is a way to live in a richer country and to raise children in a richer place. Why do I want to marry an Asian girl? Because I think they are the most beautiful in the world. 3 But of course, if I find the perfect woman for me, race is not as important. What would our life be like together? There are many possibilities. Perhaps we would... - cuddle on the couch and watch a movie - cook dinner together, a new healthy recipe - try a new sport together - play a board game together, like Risk or something less common - go to professional meetings where I would give speeches - discuss business ideas together - set aside time to spend one on one with each other, even after having children, and just work on us - work in the same room on our own projects on our own computers - practice self-defense - read aloud for each other - take a walk in the woods - discuss ideas from a thought-provoking book with each other - have many kinky adventures! I've mentioned sexual matters a few times now. That requires explanation. I want a nice girl. I want a girl that doesn't smoke or drink or swear. A girl that is kind and thoughtful. A girl that would be a great wife and a great mother. A girl I could proudly introduce to my family. ...but... She also needs to be sexually adventurous. kinky. submissive. It's hard to find a girl that is both! Now, please don't be scared. Perhaps you don't know much about sex. That's fine. Many American women, even those that have sex regularly, have much to learn and believe in too many myths and misconceptions. And we don't have to discuss sex all the time. But it is important to know that we are compatible and could be happy together. And remember, I am saving my virginity for marriage. I do sexual activities, but will not do the actual act of intercourse until then. Another disclaimer. You don't have to love all these things. You don't have to be experienced in all these things. All I ask is that you are open minded. Perhaps you are curious. Perhaps you are willing to try anything once. Perhaps you just say "I don't know if I like it or not--let's explore this more and see what happens." That's fine. You just need to be willing to consider it. I am into BDSM. If you've read or watched 50 Shades of Gray, that's one type of a BDSM relationship. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sado-Masochism. It's a catch-all term for many kinks, many alternative sexual activities. I enjoy submissive women. Oh, it's great if she's intelligent, a great life partner, if she's a capable women or a hard working professional. But she should enjoy the idea of obeying her man, of letting him take charge and make decisions. It should make her happy to make him happy. This sort of girl is often frustrated by not knowing what to do to make people happy. It's much easier if she is just told, and then she happily tries to please people. I enjoy women tied up (Bondage). I think this is very sexy. The purpose is not to hurt the woman; many women love it, and it can be quite gentle. It's just a way to add variety and make sexual activities more exciting. I enjoy many other kinks as well. Hypnosis, tickling, role play--if you are interested we can discuss a variety of kinks. But the right sort of girl gets excited at the thought of her man deciding where to take her on a date and what she should wear. Or for him to grab her, press her against the wall and kiss her passionately. Or for him to tie her to the bed and lay a trail of kisses up and down her body. Or for him to grab her, put her over his shoulder, slap her bottom and tell her that she belongs to him. I prefer a girl who is bisexual and polyamorous. That is, a girl open to the idea of kissing or playing with another girl, or us both together playing with another girl. Again, you don't have to be an expert, or even be certain that you like it. You just need to be open to the idea of discussing or exploring it to better understand if it's for you or not. There you have it. Now you know far more about me than most people do! Thank you for reading. I appreciate your attention to detail. I look forward to getting to know you better and to help you better understand me. If you've read this and are intrigued, please help me make sure that I do not miss your message, that you stand out from others so I am sure to notice you and talk to you first. Send me a message with the subject line "Please tell me more, Sir?". Tell me more about yourself. It doesn't have to be as long as this--but help me get to know you as a person, to understand what makes you the special angel that you are. :)


MONTY is from United States

MONTY (60)

I AM ALSO ON TJER FREE DATING WEB... Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal
Weight: 113 kg (249 lb)


Ron is from United States

Ron (59)

Hello Johnson City, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 64 for Penpal
Weight: 111 kg (244 lb)

Love travel and being outdoors, reading, listening to music, live or recorded. Don't smoke or drink or do drugs of any kind. Slow to anger, easy going and usually a happy person. Like to laugh and have fun. Don't like drama or arguments. Live each day to the fullest and look for the best in everyone.

Chad is from United States

Chad (25)

Here to have fun for the holiday Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 33 for Penpal
Weight: 131 kg (288 lb)

I'm from Jamaica, but right now I'm living in China. I'll be coming to Vietnam soon. I live for trying new things, going on adventures and being crazy. I'm also laid-back, friendly and very talkative. I'm joining this website to find a fun girl to spend some time with and maybe learn a bit about each other's cultures.


John is from United States

John (61)

Looking for one... Vietnamese gir... Newport Beach, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 47 for Penpal
Weight: 111 kg (244 lb)

Successful entrepreneur. Live Life to the fullest (travel, music, activities, food), Always be happy (laugh, be silly, dance) and Make love real (no games, romantic, great kisser, gentleman) I may be 60, but my inner soul is 30 - most people think I am 45-50. Looking for a life partner to experience everything possible together.


Lee is from United States

Lee (67)

A little different ,a lot differe... Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49 for Penpal
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)

My personality type according to Myers-Briggs test is INTP,May be 2 to 3% of the worlds population is like that...just trying to explain that I'm a lot different...) I love writing and filming,on any subject of beauty – it's like painting with words

dionysio is from United States

dionysio (40)

Seeking a devoted woman to be my ... Denton, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35 for Penpal
Weight: 125 kg (275 lb)

I am a devoted Israelite Hebrew, seeking my first and only marriage! I don't believe in divorce. I think two adults should be able to talk things threw before calling lawyers or devils advocate what ever you want to call them. One is a romantic by na

baby is from United States

baby (54)

"I've Got The Moves Like Jagger" Corvallis, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 43 for Penpal
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)

hi, I am a cute and cuddly, friendly and lovable....'baby'. I love to dress pretty wearing my cute baby girl dresses, and other baby girl outfits. I love to play with my baby toys, and the other toys too. I love to crawl, or travel in a car. 


paul is from United States

paul (56)

seesing princess who will be my q... South San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 33 for Penpal
Weight: 115 kg (253 lb)

sincere gentleman hoping to find love and to love fully in return.I would like to visit and meet someone who would like to have children. I will be traveling to Vietnam in December and would like to meet you.I am looking forward to visit ing your country and want to find out more about your culture.I know many Vietnamese in America who have kindly expressed their hopes that I meet a lady for good Vietnamese courtship.I seek a Friendship first and would like to hear everything about your desires and hopes for the future.I am currently divorcing and will Finalize in 2010.         I am an educated, cultured and simple man.I always put family first.         I will start to learn your language and am contemplating teaching Tiếng Việt so that I may immerse myself in your life.         My dream is to establish my household in Vietnam and travel to and from America and living here earning I VN, I met a man in America who did this very thing and was quite content with his wife and children would visit life.His America and Stay w / him in our Summer and he would go to VN.during our rainy season, when our work was slow. His wife was Wise and established a business and house hold w / his earnings and they had a comfortable life.

Frank is from United States

Frank (79)

alone too long, need to share lif... Woodbury, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 69 for Penpal
Weight: 111 kg (244 lb)

Me? An easy going guy who still thinks young. I run my own small business from my home and enjoy it. My wife died of cancer 10 years ago and I have not had much luck with companionship since then. I love to travel all over the world and simple thi

Gabriel is from United States

Gabriel (45)

Lostsun looking to be found Des Moines, Iowa, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Penpal
Weight: 125 kg (275 lb)

I am a single male looking for a wife I am single and hoping to find a woman with whom to make a family. I am romantic and believe in treating a woman with the total respect and caring. I look for a strong woman with good character and heart to make

Terry is from United States

Terry (35)

Trying to find that special someo... Norfolk, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Penpal
Weight: 125 kg (275 lb)

I like to gather facts and think things over before offering a strong opinion. I am socially poised and people-oriented. I have an excellent sense of humor and tends to see humor in events spontaneously. i would say my three BEST life-skills


Pumpkin is from United States

Pumpkin (30)

Looking for friends, maybe a girl... Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32 for Penpal
Weight: 127 kg (279 lb)

I'm a big guy with a big beard. I enjoy fishing, hunting, camping, partying, cuddling, cooking, and the company of good people. I am mostly here to make friends, but i am always looking for love. I like making new friends and partying. I have started learning Vietnamese because I want to go to Vietnam and meet new people. I'm hoping to one day find someone sweet and kind who I can spend the rest of my life with. personality and a kind heart are more important than beauty. I know i am not the most handsome man, but i am loyal, honest, and love with all my heart. I do not cheat or play games, if I like you I will show it every chance I get. if I love you I will always stand by your side, protect you, and do everything I can to keep you happy every day. I would like to have children some day, but first I need to find a good woman to be my wife. if you would like to be friends, or maybe more, please message me either on here or on one of the other apps below. I don't mind helping you practice English if that is what you are looking for. I look forward to talking to you and becoming friends, or more. 


Hector is from United States

Hector (52)

Hello. đẹp I am honest,loyal,frie... Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 42 for Penpal
Weight: 113 kg (249 lb)

i am 48 years old single for 2 years and looking to get marry I like to go out and enjoy the weather and the ocean. I like to travel,watch movies and cook. sk*pe,hector.rodriguez705Tôi thích đi ra ngoài và vui chơi với bạn bè và gia đình. Tôi thích đi cắm trại, đi du lịch, nấu ăn và chỉ mất một đi bộ trên bãi biển.


Bear is from United States

Bear (35)

Quiet Gentleman Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 32 for Penpal
Weight: 215 kg (473 lb)

I was born in the USA, Missouri, St. Louis. I've worked and done a lot of things in my short life. I like camping and hiking. I like reading books and watching movies. I like poetry and singing. I am quiet and slow at making friends, but I am fiercely loyal to the friends I do have. If I were an animal I would be a bear. I'm also a little shy.


Jeremy is from United States

Jeremy (38)

so happy to meet you Wichita, Kansas, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 33 for Penpal
Weight: 111 kg (244 lb)

I love vietnames women. To me you are the most beautiful in the world. Both on the inside and out. Most of you are so kind, wanting only the best things in this world... I leave this message for all vietnames women waiting for a man to take them away. Hold fast to your dreams and believe in yourself. I met a wonderful woman here and I cannot see a life without her. We plan a family. There are good men, and there are bad, but I promise you the good will appreciate your patience, I cannot put into words. You are so beautiful to me. I am a good man, and I must believe that I am not the only good man dying to find what you offer. Good luck to you all.


Chris is from United States

Chris (48)

Visiting HCM on February 1 Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 27 for Penpal
Weight: 114 kg (251 lb)

I have some holiday vacation time coming up. Im 43 , military vet, electronics engineer, I love art and music and spicy food. I am kind and gentle hearted. All I really want is a sweet heart girl to share her smiles and time with me. I will arrive in HCM soon. Meet me ? Show me around ? Any temples there ?

John is from United States

John (49)

Hello everyone. Titusville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 39 for Penpal
Weight: 159 kg (350 lb)

I am not to good talking about myself so I will go with what others say. I am a nice guy with a good sense of humor. I deal with one day at a time and have a calm and relaxed attitude. If you have any questions feel free to ask anything.I do have a w

osion is from United States

osion (51)

checking what this has to offer San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 40 for Penpal
Weight: 117 kg (257 lb)

i am a strong man, mentally physically and spiritually. i am emotionally. stable. i have always held a job since i was 12 years old. i do not have a degree but education is important to me. i have attended college for years and have many units. i am always trying to improve my intellect . i enjoy reading and a wide variety of the arts. they are an important part of my life as is i working and living a fitness lifestyle. i do not go clubbing or spend a lot of times in bars unless i am on vacation with my friends almost never at home. i like live comedy and dinner parties with my friends. omamre2 i can be found

Jimmy is from United States

Jimmy (46)

Howdy gals Gainesville, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40 for Penpal
Weight: 118 kg (260 lb)

There are a lot of things that I enjoy doing. I don't like to read about romance. I do like to romance the lady I'm with though! Here is a short list of what I like to do. Have fun. Laugh. Affection. Science fiction. Romantic comedies. Cooking. Yes I am domesticated lol:) I love art and crafts. And the great outdoors. I like big dogs (Bassett hounds huskies and great dane ect.) don't like small dogs (tea cups chahuahuas poodles ect.) and cats. I love horses especially Clyde's Dale. Music, I like classical-Beethoven. Industrial-front line assembly. Punk rock- the Offspring. Rock-Aerosmith. Rave-basshunter. Country-Billy ray cyrus. My favorite comedians are jim carry, rowen Atkinson, Richard Pryor, Benny Hill, and Robin Williams. I have one sibling. A sister. My divorce. Have you ever heard of that old saying opposites attract. Well they don't. Not for long anyway. I'm a one woman kind of guy. I have no need for multiple partners. Why am I doing this Internet thing? Cause I'm a very buisy man and do not have alot of time to go out and meet people in a social setting. A man cannot make a family all by himself. He must have the help of a loving caring and happy wife. I have no tattoos but I do have ear rings in my left ear

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