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Chad is from United States

Chad (34)

Please read my profile carefully. San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal

Please read my profile carefully. I'm providing a lot of detail so we can more easily understand how compatible we are. Short version: seeking a sweet, submissive, smart, sexy spouse. Long version: I am here to find a wife. I'd love to make new friends as well--feel free to write me--but the main reason I'm here is to find that one woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I am cautious. I want to get to know the right person very well before getting married. It could take months or even a year or more for me to be ready, to have the money and vacation days, to fly around to the other side of the world to meet you. Be patient. Let's get to know each other thoroughly through chat, emails, video and voice calls so we know we are right for each other. I want to have children and to raise them well. I want to marry the right woman, a woman who will be a good wife and a good mate. I am intelligent. I was accepted into Mensa, the high IQ society. I am not a rocket scientist, but I enjoy intelligent conversation, and I want intelligent children. My wife needs to be of above average intelligence. She should have a medium or dark skin tone, to help balance out my fair-skinned genes. I am agnostic. I was raised as a conservative Christian, but have come to believe that it is impossible to say what religion, if any, is correct. I try to be open minded. An agnostic woman would be best, or Christian. Other religions may be acceptable as long as she is not very religious. She must be kind, sweet, tender-hearted. There is no sexier trait a woman can have than a loving heart. She should be a good communicator. I do not mean that she has to be completely fluent in English, although that is nice. I mean that she should be patient, open, a good listener. She should be easy to talk to. We should be able to talk about anything or everything and to work out problems by discussing them frankly with each other. She must be absolutely honest, even when she thinks it is not what I want to hear. Of course she should be polite--there's no need to deliberately say hurtful things--but honesty and integrity are vital. I can't accept a woman who lies, tricks or deceives. In that vein, I know there are a lot of fakes and scammers online. I will NOT send you money. Talk to me if you are looking for a relationship, not cash. I am physically affectionate. I like to hold the girl, to cuddle her, kiss her, play with her hair. You should enjoy such affection. I prefer to do the touching, not be the one being touched. I like many things: girls with long hair, girls in high heels. Girls with sweet voices that are pleasant to listen to when she talks or sings. Girls that like to cook. What about me? Let's see. My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTJ. My top 5 Strengthsfinder results are Ideation, Input, Futuristic, Individualization, Analytical. I have a quirky sense of humor. I tend to have big dreams. I like to analyze things or make detailed plans. I enjoy being in charge. I want to change the world. I have good traits and bad traits. I am intelligent, tall and--I like to think--in overall good health. I am a software engineer, which is good work. I try to be intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious. I own my own house. I am a confident leader and public speaker. Many women think my deep voice is sexy. I am committed to saving my virginity for marriage. I am creative and analytical. I am affectionate. I like to think I am more emotionally mature than many people, but I'm far from perfect. I believe in open, honest communication. I like to think I am gentle, kind and patient with women. I do not commit crimes. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke. I do not drink. I do not swear. I like cats. I am a second degree black belt in the martial art of Tang Soo Do. I believe that a relationship takes work. That a relationship is a commitment for man and woman to work hard at loving each other. Nothing is ever perfect and there are always obstacles. But if we work together, we can have a love that lasts a lifetime. I have many faults as well. I am pale-skinned and freckled, so pale it is impossible for me to tan. Many consider that unattractive. I am young, but already getting some gray hairs. I am quite nearsighted, and need my glasses to do just about anything. I am overweight, but I have made significant changes in my lifestyle to eat and drink better and exercise more, so I expect to get fitter soon. I have made a number of mistakes in my life. My financial situation is not as great as it should be, although I have been improving it substantially in 2015 and expect to do even better in 2016. I'm not a fan of dogs. I don't always get things done as soon as I would like. I am not very close to my family, although I do talk to and see them occasionally. Sometimes I eat unhealthy foods. I find it difficult to relate to most Americans. I can be shy and introverted, often preferring to be alone. Many women do not find my looks or personality attractive. I can have difficulties managing my time for maximum productivity. I think about sexual matters a lot and discuss them too much for the taste of some women. I share these things to avoid surprises, to help you better know if you would enjoy being with me. My goals in life? I will continue to work as a software engineer. I will work off my credit card debt and save up money. I will work on my business goals. I have many business plans. Right now, I want to work on a website to teach people public speaking skills and to make that profitable enough that I can leave my day job and devote more time to business. Then I will work on more businesses. I want to marry and have kids once I am in a good financial position. I want to move somewhere--I don't know where, I need to figure out where in the US I most want to live--and build my dream house and have children and profitable businesses there. You might wonder: why do I want to look overseas for a wife? It's not just because I've had poor luck with American women. America's immigration laws are overly strict. It is hard to get into the US. The best way is to marry an American. More foreign women in the US means more cultural diversity, more genetic diversity. It means Americans will better understand the world around them. For women from poor countries, it is a way to live in a richer country and to raise children in a richer place. Why do I want to marry an Asian girl? Because I think they are the most beautiful in the world. 3 But of course, if I find the perfect woman for me, race is not as important. What would our life be like together? There are many possibilities. Perhaps we would... - cuddle on the couch and watch a movie - cook dinner together, a new healthy recipe - try a new sport together - play a board game together, like Risk or something less common - go to professional meetings where I would give speeches - discuss business ideas together - set aside time to spend one on one with each other, even after having children, and just work on us - work in the same room on our own projects on our own computers - practice self-defense - read aloud for each other - take a walk in the woods - discuss ideas from a thought-provoking book with each other - have many kinky adventures! I've mentioned sexual matters a few times now. That requires explanation. I want a nice girl. I want a girl that doesn't smoke or drink or swear. A girl that is kind and thoughtful. A girl that would be a great wife and a great mother. A girl I could proudly introduce to my family. ...but... She also needs to be sexually adventurous. kinky. submissive. It's hard to find a girl that is both! Now, please don't be scared. Perhaps you don't know much about sex. That's fine. Many American women, even those that have sex regularly, have much to learn and believe in too many myths and misconceptions. And we don't have to discuss sex all the time. But it is important to know that we are compatible and could be happy together. And remember, I am saving my virginity for marriage. I do sexual activities, but will not do the actual act of intercourse until then. Another disclaimer. You don't have to love all these things. You don't have to be experienced in all these things. All I ask is that you are open minded. Perhaps you are curious. Perhaps you are willing to try anything once. Perhaps you just say "I don't know if I like it or not--let's explore this more and see what happens." That's fine. You just need to be willing to consider it. I am into BDSM. If you've read or watched 50 Shades of Gray, that's one type of a BDSM relationship. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sado-Masochism. It's a catch-all term for many kinks, many alternative sexual activities. I enjoy submissive women. Oh, it's great if she's intelligent, a great life partner, if she's a capable women or a hard working professional. But she should enjoy the idea of obeying her man, of letting him take charge and make decisions. It should make her happy to make him happy. This sort of girl is often frustrated by not knowing what to do to make people happy. It's much easier if she is just told, and then she happily tries to please people. I enjoy women tied up (Bondage). I think this is very sexy. The purpose is not to hurt the woman; many women love it, and it can be quite gentle. It's just a way to add variety and make sexual activities more exciting. I enjoy many other kinks as well. Hypnosis, tickling, role play--if you are interested we can discuss a variety of kinks. But the right sort of girl gets excited at the thought of her man deciding where to take her on a date and what she should wear. Or for him to grab her, press her against the wall and kiss her passionately. Or for him to tie her to the bed and lay a trail of kisses up and down her body. Or for him to grab her, put her over his shoulder, slap her bottom and tell her that she belongs to him. I prefer a girl who is bisexual and polyamorous. That is, a girl open to the idea of kissing or playing with another girl, or us both together playing with another girl. Again, you don't have to be an expert, or even be certain that you like it. You just need to be open to the idea of discussing or exploring it to better understand if it's for you or not. There you have it. Now you know far more about me than most people do! Thank you for reading. I appreciate your attention to detail. I look forward to getting to know you better and to help you better understand me. If you've read this and are intrigued, please help me make sure that I do not miss your message, that you stand out from others so I am sure to notice you and talk to you first. Send me a message with the subject line "Please tell me more, Sir?". Tell me more about yourself. It doesn't have to be as long as this--but help me get to know you as a person, to understand what makes you the special angel that you are. :)


OLIVER is from United States


Happy with Life San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 47 for Penpal

Single parent raising my daughter. Retired Military but still working a job. Love taking cruises


Larry is from United States

Larry (57)

Hello Sweet & Beautiful Ladie... San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 45 for Penpal

I'm a pretty normal guy living "Life to the Fullest"... Life is very short & I'll live it for all it's worth... I enjoy being outdoors like going to the beach or park laying out on a blanket with a pretty woman... Drink some wine relax and get cozy... I really like a lot kissing... I like most sports, golf is my favorite... I enjoy listening and dancing to all kinds of music!!!


Bernardo is from United States

Bernardo (43)

Looking For True Love...Marriage San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 37 for Penpal

Hello, my name is Bernardo, Im 35 yrs old born and raised in Texas,U.S.A.....Im mexican american...My b-day is March 6,1975... Im a simple man that appreciates the smaller things in life.. Im respectful, loving, caring, romantic, kind hearted, sweet,


Robert is from United States

Robert (31)

Aspiring Film maker San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 29 for Penpal

I am a creative type who wants to love only one person for the rest of my life. I dont make alot of money, but I work hard to provide.


Drew is from United States

Drew (45)

Dont hesitate San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 32 for Penpal

Im easy going, honest and have a sense of humor


Andy is from United States

Andy (36)

Looking for someone San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 27 for Penpal

I am a very outgoing person, like to learn new things, travel. if you want to get to know me ask me.

troy is from United States

troy (47)

looking fore the one San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

imwhite i live in texas i work underground


Rudy is from United States

Rudy (66)

In search of true love San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 49 for Penpal

I am an American with a Mexican Heritage and I am looking for a Vietnamese lady to marry and who will love only me.


thom is from United States

thom (67)

Big but very nice San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 60 for Penpal

Hello I want to move to Vietnam to live, i enjoy chatting with google my nickname is bird4t4. Thank you for reading my profile


Gary is from United States

Gary (40)

all vietnamese culture San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40 for Penpal

am a musican i play music, also an art painter... i have long hair and tattoos

Derek is from United States

Derek (40)

just looking San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35 for Penpal

watching anime and playing my xbox 360 is what i do to un do a day of work for me

Huy is from United States

Huy (36)

Muon quen mot nguoi song chung su... San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33 for Penpal

Hien, quan tam, that tha, Vui tanh, Thix nhieu thu lam, chac ke toi sang moi song. ^_^ Noi chung la noi chuyen voi anh roi se hieu anh nhieu hon.


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domingo (58)

love to relax w the one i want to... San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 46 for Penpal

njoy life w the right person n have fun w family n friends


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truong (54)

when you see me , you will know e... San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45 for Penpal

I'm single SVN repository, 5'10 tall. 170lb about 70 kg , 1m74 high skin revealing ngam , for nen vung lucky you hang page preterm na, mot nguoi fun lyme , criminal bridge went into mayonnaise what what

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khiet (44)

i dont know San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

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roman (46)

love is free San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 42 for Penpal

I am a single man very honest and loyal. I like trying new things also i have many hobbies: guitar playing , listening to music, playing video games, watching movies, reading,bike riding,etc. I am a faithful man looking for my Asian wife hopefully fi

Chuck (61)

looking for partner in life San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40 for Penpal

51 year old white male divorced looking for partner to plan life with. I am faithful, kind and have never hit a woman in my life. I have maybe two drinks a month or less. I don't smoke or do drugs. I treat women with respect and love and expect t

andre (44)

looking for love for life San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

honest, true, sincere, and natural. I would like to find a woman that is ready to marry.

ray ray (54)

everybody loves an asian girl :) San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 40 for Penpal

very out going, not afraid to try different waters, just being outside ie beach, pool, parks

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