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Zach is from United States

Zach (23)

Teaching in Vietnam San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50 for Penpal

I like to think and enter discussions about art, philosophy, religion, and most importantly culture. I became addicted to traveling a few years ago and that is why I teach English abroad now. I don't know when I'll be back in America, but for now I'm grateful to be a guest in different countries.

John is from United States

John (35)

I am looking for marriage... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Penpal

When people are sometimes asked to describe me, the term "spark plug" is often used. I know how to speak my mind and get what I want, but I do so with a smile. I've been known to assess first impressions quickly (both personally and professionally) and generally do not waiver from my initial conclusion. I'm considered a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I've been told that I'm smart, handsome and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I'm looking for a woman who shares my views on love, family and friends and is ready for all of it to begin with me.


Garrison is from United States

Garrison (39)

Please read my profile before any... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 39 for Penpal

Well Im honestly looking to start a family right away. I have been to Vietnam 3 times. I am looking for someone that needs support and in return will give me a child with me. Co-parenting works. Im willing to provide to my family as long as they agree to my terms. I am not getting younger so i would like to start a family right away. If you show interest or message me please let me know you read my profile and agree to it. We can start talking and getting to know each other and you can also get further details. Cam on

Bernie is from United States

Bernie (51)

The long and winding road (life) San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

Rich, poor, powerful, weak, confident, insecure - we’re all in this together. Each of us lives our own unique life. Time is relatively short, eighty years if we’re lucky, perhaps even more. I’m about midway through my life, and I feel that something’s missing. I’m searching. I’m searching for my own unique meaning, my own unique joy and happiness. I’m more at peace now than any other point in my life, but joy is lacking. I need someone to let into my heart, someone to bring me joy. About me: 6’ 200 pounds, dark brown hair, French/Italian genes, strong, athletic, reasonably, intelligent, moderately attractive. I enjoy hiking, biking, running, kayaking, skiing, swimming, basketball, tennis, scuba (looking for a woman who wants to share this with me - who isn’t afraid to sweat). I THINK CONFIDENCE AND INTELLIGENCE IN A WOMAN IS SEXY. I like to read (currently “The Enchantress of Florence” by Salman Rushdie). I’m fanatic about good food (like to cook), red wine (collection, frequent tastings), art (Rodin, Michelangelo, Botticelli, Bernini), drama (Shakespeare – drama in my own life I minimize), music (Beatles, Pink Floyd, Enya, Sarah McLachlan, Dido, Maroon 5, Coldplay, David Bowie, Gipsy Kings, Santana, much much more - even stuff like Mozart, Beethoven, Bocelli, Sinatra, Lena Horne, Louis Armstrong), and travel (world is my oyster – ask me about 2007). I try to live my life in the moment, but I also try always to be a better person – physically, intellectually, and spiritually. I believe in the fullest realization of the best and noblest that we are capable of as human beings (from Affirmations of Humanism by Paul Kurtz).


Eddie is from United States

Eddie (40)

Just go with it...... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38 for Penpal

"Faith is the most powerful force on earth and in the heavens, faith knows no fact or reason, transends the laws of science, faith is the most powerful" I'm Ambitious & I'm Driven..........You only fail when you give up.......... What your birthday means:....... You usually think before acting which makes your life quite easy. But you often are the one who give yourself a hard time by being paranoid. People might not truly understand you but you are really nice to be around. You are cheerful and friendly. Your Love, Still water runs deep, that's what you are. You always surprise others with your new character when you are in love. Your love trap often comes unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.

Rich  is from United States

Rich (57)

Teddy bear seeks adoption San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40 for Penpal

I am a loyal teddy bear. Helping people is my life's work, and when I am not working I enjoy playing basketball, chess, bicycling and swimming. I also build and repair computers and am a former professional broadcaster. You can email or message me at thanks!


Philip is from United States

Philip (49)

Seeking a bride who is beautiful ... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26 for Penpal

Serious minded and hard working. Fairly ambitious but also pretty laid back. I'm usually pretty quiet but I can talk for hours if there is something to talk about. Sociable and likes to go out with friends after work. My sense of humor tends to be pretty sarcastic.I tend to put my lady's priorities before my own. Patient and willing to wait for THE ONE!!! I can cook pretty good too...


Dale is from United States

Dale (74)

Single American San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 46 for Penpal

I will be visiting Vietnam for the first time in 2016. I am excited to see this beautiful country for the first time. I'm a retired banker, healthy, fit, active, now owning and managing my own property and working on inequality in several organizations. I am single, divorced for 3 years, live alone (just with my little dog) in my own home in San Francisco. I enjoy travel, Asian food, art, music, fitness. I am 6 feet tall () and 180 pounds (82 kilos). I workout every day. Most people say I am 50 in my appearance, voice, activity. I had had a very healthy life, and I am very active. I love music, dancing, a glass of wine, travel--short and long. I have two grown daughters who live with their husbands (not with me), and I have an adopted Vietnamese granddaughter from Hanoi. I have never been to Vietnam and I want to come for long visit. I am very honest, and happy to answer any questions anyone might have. I am looking for a friend first, and hope that develops into a life partner. I'm not sure, but here is how I think the process might work. I imagine coming to Vietnam to meet a few women, after trying to find compatibility via this site and the internet conversations. A few because until we meet, I won't really know whether you will like me in person, or vice versa, or whether it is really a good fit. There should be no intimacy on the first trip.Then, if one person does turn out to have mutual fit in both our opinions, I would go back to put my business in order and then return for a longer visit of weeks or months, in order to really get to know my possible partner, and for her to get to know me. Only after that would we be able to mutually decide whether we want to be together for life. If you don't agree this process, please share your thoughts with me. Thanks.


Erick is from United States

Erick (36)

Ready to start... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 69 for Penpal

I'm an open-minded and curious person, and I'm hoping to meet interesting people and have some great conversations. I appreciate the simple things in life, and I believe that love, creativity, and knowledge are far more important than anything material.


Cam is from United States

Cam (46)

Light the Spark San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Male 23 - 50 for Penpal

I'm a warm-hearted, easygoing, sincere, romantic and adventurous Asian guy from the U.S., who will be visiting Vietnam next year. I especially appreciate humor and laughter, strong family bonds, good friendships, and integrity. I enjoy bicycling, camping, hiking, skiing and surfing, as well as movies, concerts, eating out, cooking, good conversation, the company of great friends, and the love and devotion of a long-term partner.


Gordon is from United States

Gordon (51)

Looking for the ONE and ONLY - MY... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 49 for Penpal

Loving, Honest, Loyal, Romantic, Sincere and a ONE woman man and Active. Love to hold hands and cuddle. Family oriented. Entrepreneur, intelligent, business CEO/Owner, thinking outside the box, a world traveler. At the same time well grounded and rounded. 

ROB is from United States

ROB (68)

Phục vụ một người Phụ nữ San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 49 for Penpal

I have no fear in telling a woman I love her. What matters is which love I'm determined to give her. To me the current needs of a person determine how that person wants to be loved. Me, I can't say I like you as if your candy or ice cream. I can only determine to love you just as you are the way you desire me to. Why? It's because it's not about me but that one person and that persons needs being met. Oh yes, I also have needs, yet I will deny myself for this special person. I can determine to love you based on all your needs, therefore, you must open your heart. Allow me to see who you really are. That alone will take on a serious life long relationship. Yes it's true, take it slow, protect your heart. Sometimes love is full of joy and also pain. So the first type of love is friendship love. Tôi không có sợ hãi nói với một người phụ nữ Tôi yêu cô ấy. Điều quan trọng là đó tình yêu Tôi đã xác định để cho cô ấy. Đối với Tôi, nhu cầu hiện tại của một người xác định làm thế nào người đó muốn được yêu. Tôi, Tôi không thể nói Tôi thích bạn, nếu như kem kẹo hay băng của bạn. Tôi chỉ có thể xác định yêu bạn cũng giống như bạn theo cách mà bạn mong muốn Tôi. tại sao? đó là bởi vì nó không phải về Tôi, nhưng một người và người có nhu cầu được đáp ứng. Oh có, Tôi cũng có những nhu cầu, nhưng Tôi sẽ từ chối bản thân mình cho người đặc biệt này. Tôi có thể xác định yêu bạn dựa trên tất cả các nhu cầu của bạn, do đó, bạn phải mở rộng trái tim của bạn. Cho phép Tôi để xem bạn thực sự là ai. Điều đó một mình sẽ đảm nhận một mối quan hệ nghiêm trọng cuộc sống lâu dài. có nó là sự thật, lấy nó làm chậm, bảo vệ trái tim của bạn. Đôi khi tình yêu là niềm vui và cũng đau. Vì vậy, loại đầu tiên của tình yêu là tình bạn tình yêu.

michael is from United States

michael (46)

hi San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 40 for Penpal

im a hardworking father to a six year old son. he is the light of my life. im not rich but have a good job. even at my age im still a work in progress and i am always willing to learn more , seek out new friends and adventures and to find ways to be


HBKSN is from United States

HBKSN (42)

NICE GUY FOR A NICE WOMAN San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 38 for Penpal


Pete is from United States

Pete (52)

Gentleman seeks Lady San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 37 for Penpal

Hi there :-) I am a gentle man with a stable career and life, looking for a woman who can be a friend, a lover, and a wife. I enjoy the quiet things in life, arts, music, literature, and longs walks with a special person. If you are interested, pleas

John is from United States

John (64)

John from USA San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45 for Penpal

Hi my name is John. I am 52 years old. I live alone in Calironia, USA. I have been divorced for 12 years. I have two grown children. I enjoy traveling to Asia often -- especially Thailand, Malaysia, and Indonesia. I lived and worked in Malaysia for three years doing mental health work. I have never been to Vietnam, but would like to learn more about the people and places there. I live in the mountains (4 hours from San Francisco) surrounded by redwood trees & rivers near the Pacific Ocean. I enjoy kayaking in the ocean and lakes, fishing, traveling, motorcycles, reading, being home watching videos hanging-out, or working on my house. I am kind, honest, good listener, and financially secured.


Robert is from United States

Robert (44)

Do you want a slave husband? San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 50 for Penpal

I like to be a slave husband:) I'm gentle, attentive, hardworking, soft, generous, and loyal. I work hard, and enjoy doing housework and cleaning. I like to read, play chess, drink coffee, and eat sweets (maybe too much chocolate). On the weekends, I like to go shopping, watch a movie, or stay at home. I've visited Vietnam, but now I live in california. I've never been married and have no children. I am a caretaker personality, so I like to listen and make you feel better if you are upset. I like to spoil my wife and treat her as the queen of the household.


cass is from United States

cass (51)

Greetings from California! San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33 for Penpal

I am Cass. I have a very nice personality. I am confident and treat a woman with respect. I am very supportive and helpful. I hope that I can find someone that I can treat special. If you want to be my friend, this is ok. If you are looking for something more serious, please be honest with me.


Lành is from United States

Lành (57)

Tìm bạn tốt vui tính thôi ..... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45 for Penpal

In span style="background-4: yellow soared;"Simple, coherent, interesting ... friendship true is a wealth priceless for who realized and know preserve! So like good food, but cooking poorly and have been wash rice cooker notorious very long new clean so when you need your kitchen sponge (Paper) or market or taste the dish weird write in menu restaurant - then look very far more...there have been two hands and two feet ... volunteer instant conscience personality shy.

robert is from United States

robert (37)

looking for that special someone San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 49 for Penpal

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