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Daryl
28 Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 30
English ability: Very Good
Taikan
32 Spring Valley, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 31
English ability: Very Good
A letter to my future wife To my dearest wife, even though destiny has not revealed you yet. I know that destiny has connected our hearts and minds. Our hearts feel the desire to be together. We miss the feelings of being cared for and being needed. Our minds are questioning the sense of our lonely existence. My beloved wife, are we not asking the same questions, Where, What, When and Why ? Where are you ? My dearest wife. Let me answer this question question for you. I was born and raised in Germany and have traveled to many places in Asia, Africa, Europe and North America. Even though called Germany my home country I could not find happiness there so I moved to the USA. I am here in Las Vegas now and do not plan to relocate for the next couple of years. Dearest wife, sometimes I am actively searching for you, and sometimes I am passively waiting for you to join me. What are you doing ? My dearest wife. I am preparing the foundation for our life together. The foundation is my personality, my financial stability, my beliefs and my values. My personality. Like everyone else, I was shaped by the life events I had to experience. I failed and succeeded; I gained and lost; I felt happiness and sadness and everything in between, and so much more. The rough outline of my personality is already drawn, but future life events and you will give it its final shape. Overall, my personality can be divided in two parts: I have a rational side to run my business and manage my staff (INTJ and ENTJ) and a more emotional side (ENFJ) to care for my family, friends, and people I care about. Over time I learned to accept the negative, learned to forgive destiny for unpleasant life events, and found strength in hope. Finally, I worked myself back into happiness. I learned to enjoy bad times, so I can enjoy good times even more. This is my way to live life to the fullest. Beloved wife, I have found my emotional balance. I am patient with destiny, myself, and you. My financial stability. I cannot completely agree with the statement that money doesn’t matter. We live in a rational world, so our love alone cannot feed our kids and support their careers. Our finances help us to get through tough times, help us relax, buy time, buy health, buy education, buy life experience, and so much more. Understanding this, I learned early how to run a business and let others help me to build a business where everyone profits. A win-win- win situation is what business people should aim for. Wealth needs to be built up slowly and not on the cost of others. Fast wealth will benefit neither our personalities nor society; it will only cause harm. My dearest wife, because of my idealistic persistence in creating win-win-win situations I could not become financially independent, but I am financially stable, and as long as God and luck are with me, I will try to keep it that way. My beliefs. My beloved wife, explaining all my beliefs will make this letter endless. Let me explain three of them to you: 1. Happiness – I believe that my personal happiness is achieved when the people I care about are happy. As a man, I need to protect, support, and guide people who need me to find their happiness. I have to protect, support and guide my children and my beloved wife, but I need to know how to balance the three, so everyone will become an independent, strong, and caring individual. Everyone will have a different opinion on happiness, but I will try to help everyone achieve it. 2. Love – Love can be divided into 2 main parts. Falling in love with my beloved wife will be magical, natural, indescribable by words… It will be God-given. Love will follow… But love is hard to keep. Like stones in a river are shaped by the water’s flow, human character is shaped by life events. The same life events can shape different people differently. The beloved wife I love today might have changed into another person within the next 5 years; the same could happen to me, even though both of us experienced the same life events. So how do we keep our love? It will help if we have hobbies, interests, and goals in common, if we learn from each other, adjust to each other, and, most importantly, grow together. Imagine the roots of two plants intertwining - That is what we need to become. Our society and our time by ourselves has taught us to be independent, but when we are together, we have to learn to depend on each other. Can you promise me this, my beloved wife? Different steps for most humans to move up to achieve happiness - Most Humans will always to archive the next level to be happy 1. To survive ( to have enough to eat and drink, to life not to die ) 2. To have peace ( not living in a war zone, can sleep tight without the fear of getting bombed ) 3. To build up a family or society ( To socialize, not being lonely, having family around them ) 4. To build up wealth through work or education ( to enjoy luxus, to have time, to enjoy life ) 5. To get respected ( To make other people envy of us, to show that we made it through hard work, to get regonized ) 6. To sharewealth/knowledge ( Sharing knowledge, sharing wealth, understanding that giving is more than taking ) 7.Leaving a legacy ( leaving something which will benefit the world after we left this world ) My values. My dearest wife, since childhood, my strongest motivation in life has been to help, change, guide, support and protect other people. The way I find happiness is helping others to find theirs. To achieve my happiness, I have to be patient, responsible, reliable, supportive, well-educated, knowledgeable, hard-working, ambitious, dedicated, passionate, willing to sacrifice for the greater good, open-minded, physically strong, mentally strong, emotionally strong, and spiritually strong. I try to help as many people to achieve their personal happiness as I can. My dearest wife, I know you are not selfish and understand me, so you are ready to give some of our time together for me to help people around us. No matter how much I love the time with you (and I wish it would never end), I know we cannot just think for us. We cannot change the whole world, but let us change the small part of the world we live in. I am deeply and unendingly grateful your generosity and understanding for me to achieve my personal happiness, my beloved wife. When will you appear? My dearest wife, I have asked this question for so long that I have accepted that I have to wait. I used to believe that you would appear before me sooner, if I actively look for you, but I learned to believe in destiny, so I know that you will not be revealed until our time is meant to be. Be patient, beloved wife… Why I need you ? My dearest wife, even though I don’t know your voice yet, I miss your voice asking me questions, “How as your day? You look tired”, “Are you hungry? I made food for us”, “You are sweating, let me wipe it off“. Oh, my beloved wife, how I crave for your care … I have so many unanswered questions. I need your wisdom, your life experience, your opinion, your intellectual mind… You will give me my final shape. Let me see who I will become with you … Beloved wife, you are already matured, well-educated, and emotionally stable, and you already know how to value life and how to be a family woman. – It is time for you to appear so we can leave a legacy. I don´t expect you to share the same values and motivation in life but please understand and support me. You know that for some people, I am a son; for some, a brother; for some, a cousin; for some, a nephew; for some, a friend; and for all others, I am human, so you know that I have to do right by everyone. You don´t know how I miss the feeling of being needed, the feeling of being your armor and the feeling of being your knight. Give my life a purpose. Give my life something I can protect, love, admire, support and guide. One day our time will begin….

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