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Jeremy
43 Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 35
Smoke: Do smoke
**The first words in your message to me should be "Jeremy, you're a funny guy". Show me that you actually read my profile and didn't just like my photos.** Coming back to Asia again in January 2019! I love the culture there, and I'm hoping to finally find the right match. First of all, my profile is long...very long. This is the longest/most complete/most frank profile you will ever read here in VC. Why? Several reasons. First, I believe that to be taken seriously you need to write a serious profile and that requires time and effort. If you have a blank profile or one with just a sentence or two, I'm probably not going to respond to you because you didn't even put in the minimum effort to tell me about you. Second, I don't want you to have to waste time asking me a bunch of basic questions. I want you to be able to read my profile and get a good sense of who I am. I think that actually makes it EASIER to have good conversation later. You must admit, it's soooo boring to do the "Hi"..."Hello"...."How are you?"...."I'm good, how are you?"..."What are you looking for here?" game over and over, right? Third, I have life experience that has taught me what I want and what I don't want in a match. It's better for both of us if I just say those things in my profile now. If you read it and like it, you'll want to talk to me more. If not, you will just move on to another person. Much simpler than talking for a week and deciding you don't like me because of simple things. So anyhow, this is long and that's why. If you didn't fall asleep yet, keep reading! Before we get started, I have three simple requests: 1. I'm sorry to have to put this at the top of my profile, but so many girls here have wasted my time and I'm tired of it. If your main reason for getting on this site was to find someone to pay your tuition, to find a sponsor, or to find your "personal ATM machine", then just skip my profile right now. I'm really good at discovering your game and I've heard all of the tricks/excuses before. They won't work on me. Move on! I understand that life is hard, but scamming foreigners is not the answer. 2. If you are here just for "fun with foreigners" or enjoy being a vacation gf for foreigners, there's nothing wrong with that, but just SAY THAT. I'm always looking for a good long term match, but I enjoy good fun and vacation companionship (if I haven't found a match yet)...just be honest about it, ok? Don't try to make people think you are here for something when you're really not. 3. I don't use the chat here. Send me message instead. And if you do send me a message, PLEASE say something more than "Hi" (or similar). If you're truly interested in me, you should have something more to say. As they say, you only get one chance to make a first impression. ********************************************************************************* About me: Super friendly, tall, funny, charming, loving, happy, sensual, a little bit naughty, but always a respectful gentleman. I'm not really into bars and things like that where foreigners usually go to meet people when visiting Asia. I'm more into spending quality time enjoying the company of others I meet in other ways. I'm a kind and pleasant man searching for my perfect match. I took a break for a few years and enjoyed being single, but I've decided that I have a lot of love to give and it's time to start enjoying life and meeting new people again. So I tried this site at the suggestion of a friend. I met some really nice people here and ultimately took a trip to the Philippines in 2016. I really enjoyed the trip, loved the country, the culture, the experiences, and the great people. However, I just haven't found the right match. People tell me my profile makes it seem like I am too strict. I can see why they might say that, but I'm actually very simple and easy to please. I just think it's good to say what's important to me in my profile. I've also learned from my experience here what I want and don't want in a woman. It saves all of us a lot of time if everybody would me more clear in their profiles. That's my opinion anyhow. I'm actually a very happy guy who is easy to talk to and easy to please, I'm just goal-oriented...that means when I decide that I'm going to do something, I put in 100% effort to succeed. I'm giving 100% effort to this profile. I'm a genuine, friendly, and easy-going guy. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I love to smile and make people smile. I enjoy traveling and I travel to other countries at least 3-4x each year. I have been to most states in the USA, Canada, Korea, Thailand, Hong Kong, Japan, and Philippines. I hope to visit Vietnam soon. A Vietnamese lady has cut my hair for years, and she tells me I should find a good Vietnamese women, LOL. When I'm not working or traveling, I enjoy just relaxing at home, reading, watching movies, TV, doing a project...or planning my next travel adventure! I also really enjoy cuddling with my partner (if I had one!). I am a professional who works in the performing arts field. I have a good career that I really enjoy. I live in a big city, but I grew up in the country (province) so I appreciate both lifestyles. I appreciate traditional values, but I'm also very open-minded. I'm a practical guy which means that I don't spend a lot of time thinking about things that aren't realistic. But at the same time, I am a creative/"outside the box" thinker and I'm really good at solving problems. I'm a romantic guy and I love being intimate with my partner. I love to touch and be touched. I am a respectful guy. You will never get a request from me for nude photos or cam sex. I don't do that. I read many profiles here -- sorry you ladies have that experience with other guys. Don't misunderstand -- I enjoy "fun" just as much as anyone else and my perfect match must be a passionate lover who truly enjoys sex (or wants to), but I prefer that to be in real, hehe. I'm also pretty independent. While I'd LIKE to get married, I don't NEED to be married to be happy, so I'm in no hurry here. I will stay single before I will marry someone I'm not totally sure about. Translation: I'm not desperate! If something doesn't feel right, I'm not going to continue with that person just to 'settle down'...neither should you! One thing that's a little bit weird about me is that I don't eat many different foods. I've been that way since I was a baby. It is what it is. There's nothing you can do to change it. You can be the best cook in the world...it doesn't matter...I only eat the things I eat. Most people I've dated just get accustomed to it and it doesn't bother them after a while, but some people just can't get over it and it becomes a problem. If you accept me the way I am, we'll get along great. If you insist on trying to change me (no matter how good your intentions are), we will not get along. Like I said, most people don't care, but I mention it here because some people's lives totally revolve around food. I am the total opposite way, LOL. Bottom line: You will never get me to try balut! Hehe **Scroll down to read about my match and what I'm looking for**
al
50 San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Smoke: Do smoke
JENO
67 Gainesville, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 45
Smoke: Do smoke
Hmmm...I work hard....play harder! I have been fortunate in many ways...most importantly I have two great children.( both grown and not living w/me...by the way ). I'm reasonably intelligent, and still love to learn new things. I have travelled alot more than most would ever dream of and yet, I still have so very much to see and do. For example, I have never been to Vietnam, maybe you would be willing to share it with me? More than travel, I have really lived in a number of countries and that is superb to travel!! I would in fact like to share my life with a woman again. I have been divorced twice and in retrospect truly believe I got married in the wrong country...! Why you ask? Well I believe the premise or foundation of a relationship or marriage is honesty, be it good or bad. I had the misfortune ( or learning experience of being cheated on ). Hey, if you want to fool around, so be it...just don't make a committment!!! I really believe the "American way of relationships is shallow and weak, it lacks the key ingredient of honesty. OK...I am way too serious at this moment....what else about me? I am a chef and yes I actually love to cook, better yet, learn new styles of cooking. I love the beach and the ocean, I love to plant things, landscape, get dirty in the yard...whatever. Conversely, I do "clean up" pretty well and like to go out for dinner, dancing, partying, socializing etc. I like movies, I love popcorn! I like to joke, tease, whatever it takes to get a laugh. Sometimes I like to talk alot and sometimes I feel I have nothing to say. I am never...ever bored. I hate people who say they are bored, it sends me a message that they are not creative, have no motivation or imagination. I, like oh so many, do, like to tell my stories, but unlike so very many, I do have a good grasp on how to listen...in my opinion a very worthy trait. I love and respect intelligence. I hate guys who think women are for cooking, cleaning, and assorted other servant type duties...Please believe, I can do any domestic task both willingly and most efficiently. I want a relationship with someone I trust, I love, I can be completely comfortble with, someone who challenges me and make me whole? Does that even make sense? Well, you decide. Oh, I work on a ship which means...when I work, I am at sea, I work 7 long days a week and usually for two to three months at a time, but....the part I like, then I get nice, way nice vacations like a month or two at a time. The work wears me out but the vacations are well worth the extra effort. Enough said for now!!!!!

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