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Paul
49 Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
NOTE: I wrote quite a lot below. Please click the arrow below to see my thoughts. It's a good read ;) There is also a surprise in here for those who have the patience to read what I have written. (All my pics are recent - including the one with me goofing off with my niece - love my sisters kids!) My faith is very important to me. I open the day with prayer and meditations. I end the day the same, and throughout the day I am always trying to stay focused. I am not religions rather spiritual. I do not pray to statues or saints, but I am Protestant, Baptist more or less. I dislike traditional routines. I speak straight to God and have a relationship with Him directly for guidance. I am looking for a woman of faith. I would love to start a family when the time is right. This is important to me, so if you have no desire to start a new one, I can assure you we will not be a good fit together. Disclaimer: I'm a kid at heart. I will play pranks, run, laugh, chase you, hide from you. I work hard, but play hard. If you have a habit of disappearing after a few messages, or worse yet, give single word or sentence responses please block me now. I love to talk. It's important in a relationship. Prologue: faith, family, fun: to make as many memories as possible because in the end, memories are the only thing we take with us. Let us start off with a conversation and if we hit it off, let us go in a date. I do want to assure you, long term marriage and a family is my endgame. Please take the time to read what I have spent the time to write. I can assure you I will read yours. I do not judge others for their faith if it is different than mine or desire to convert others to a religion, but I believe a healthy relationship is based off common beliefs. I believe I can speak directly with God without intersession and believe He is the only God and only through the sacrifice at the cross one can gain eternal life. I also believe our lives have a purpose and we, if we seek it are guided to a life of peace and love through the leadership of the Lord. Who I am: I am confident. I am secure (emotionally, financially, spiritually). I am driven, sarcastic and compassionate. A Renaissance man in blue jeans. A creator, fet, sometimes defiant, a champion of animals, the weak and the needy and the antagonists of the rude and bullies. I am a true southern gentleman. I open doors for others. I say yes ma'am, walk on the outside of a woman on the sidewalk, rescue dogs, eat my vegetables, take my vitamins and say my prayers. I eat as raw as I can when I can. I exercise and try to sleep on a schedule. I do this because I want to be physically, mentally and spiritually attractive in such a way that my partner would have no choice but to desire my presence constantly. So I seek my equal. I own a business that is in both Florida and Louisiana and I travel equally between the two, so obviously I love traveling, but this also means for any foreseeable future, I must call the US my home. Also I bleed purple and gold. (college football reference: Geaux Tigers!) Bio: I fit best with women between 20 and 30 years old with no children. I have the spirit of a youth, the looks of a man in his 30’s and the life experience of a seasoned one. I am not interested in big homes, fancy cars and impressing strangers. This is why I do not have much in common with the women in my area. I value experience and love and memories rather than fancy distractions, and I am looking for the same. I do not wake every day to go to work to pay the bills, but rather to save for future activities. I take a few trips a year either diving, Disney (a family favorite), any theme park actually, camping - no really I actually camp, run marathons, dress cosplay for any event my nieces and nephews want to go to. I have been told the twinkle in my eye and my sly smile is my calling card to trouble, both good and bad. I tithe, I go to church, meditate and seek to be the best person I can be regardless of my circumstances. Other: Patience and a positive outlook is something I have been both praised and cursed at for. I have an engaging family that you would need to become part of and I would wish to be the same with yours. Communication is paramount. Like extremely important. I like to talk. I know this will anger many of you, but I am not interested in raising another mans' children. One child doesn't not bother me, but a house full of children is not interesting to me. I know that sounds cold and cruel, but I have been very careful my whole life to get to this point without having kids haphazardly and I desire to have children with the woman my Creator has for me. If you have read this and still feel you would like to talk to me, feel free to reach out to me. nunya.affare@yahoo.com I will be happy to read your bio also. If you haven't filled any out, have just typed a few words or have no photo, I more than likely will not be interested. Also Chocolate Almond ice-cream, cinnamon rolls and banana splits. This is the nectar of the gods and I will insist you have terrible life choices if you say those three things are not why we exist. Also also sundresses and bows are my weakness. You will get anything you want using them against me.
james
45 Cumberland, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Smoke: Occasionally smoke
Location in US does not matter much because I own my business and have time to travel to meet the right person. I have been to Vietnam and would like to go back. However, if you are in Vietnam, and I am interested I would be willing to have you travel here. I could possibly even supply a work visa thru my business. If you’re looking for “normal”, I’m not your guy. If you’re looking for “easy to get to know” and “instant attraction”… I’m probably not you’re guy either. If you’re looking to invest time getting to know someone, let’s do that. Here are the ground rules… 1. Let’s meet up. I am not interested in long electronic exchanges, snapchat, and constant flirtatious and ambiguous texts. I would rather meet early and make sure that you are who you say you are and in return, you will see that I am who I say I am. If meeting up makes you nervous, you pick the place, bring a chaperone and I’ll buy that person dinner too. 2. Let me take you on 3 dates before you make a decision about me. In exchange, you’ll get to go on 3 really nice dates with no expectation in return. I know my strengths and weaknesses… first impressions are a definite weakness of mine. On the other hand… my strength is that I offer long term intrigue and have multiple layers to my personality that take effort to learn and understand. 3. Know what you’re looking for. I know what I’m looking for and if I find it, I am willing to accommodate what you need. Be brave enough to say what you want and need and I will do the same. I’m not good at understanding the nuances of games and if you expect me to play, you’re out of luck. Maybe that’s another weakness of mine… or maybe it’s a strength. I guess that depends on your level of interest in playing games. If you’re still reading, you have my respect and we are off to a good start. The basics about me? I’m a business owner, am financially secure, and keep a very small group of friends. If someone makes it into this circle, I am incredibly loyal. What am I looking for? A woman with something to offer. I don’t care what type of job you have, just that you have goals. I am looking for someone that can make time for adventure, fun, and spontaneous travel. Everyone is “the busiest person in the world”, myself included. But… life balance is important and there has to be joy and excitement, or all the hard work is for nothing. I love animals and have a lot of them. So if they gross you out and think they are dirty… we probably aren’t a match. Some days I think I like animals better than people. If you have days like this, we are probably a match.

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