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Todd
58 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 58
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for the one
Hello Ladies, Ni hao ma. My name is Todd, I am 57 divorced dad of 1 adult daughter. Looking for my pretty asian lady to have a relationship with. I am looking for ladies already here in California. I have had online relationships before and the lady was never able to get the Visa to come to USA. I am in San Diego, which is a beautiful City. I live a little east of the city in a country area. I have 2 dogs that are bigger, A Golden retriever and a lab/shepherd mix that are friendly. So i am looking for an attractive asian lady, that wants to be loved, you need to speak English pretty well. I am a giving and loving man but i want the same in my partner. I love affection and closeness and cuddles. I look forward to meeting you.
Damon
52 • Poughkeepsie, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 52
Smoke: Don't smoke
Understanding protecting your intimacy. I work for the state as well as the community in a church love to laugh love to sing love martial arts & my W/a is Damon Williams I have been a teacher for over 29 years Love movies and music Or just sitti
Kenny
43 • Newburgh, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for the love of my life
I'm creative and well educated. I love animals and have a great sense of humor. I`m a confident take charge romantic man. I`m also positive and goal orientated. I love to have fun, life's an adventure. I work hard and play hard. I drink socially and
Richie
69 • Riverside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
A Strong gentle teddy bear who values a good hug.
I am retired and planning to travel throughout the USA for 1-2 years in my motorhome starting end of 2026, I will be looking for a smaller city where I like to buy a house and move out of California, it's just too expensive to stay here any longer on retirement income. And I have lived here for 60 years and I am ready to make a change. Please be at least 48 years old and not have any school age children living at home. Our initial lifestyle would not support school age children with all the traveling. Looking for a country girl or a city girl that has a dream to live a simple minimalist lifestyle in the countryside. And is looking for a peaceful slower pace of life. I am open and honest, with the ability to listen patiently to my wife. I invite the discussion about anything that will improve the relationship. I am open to correction and will do my best to improve any behavior to bring about peace and harmony. I am a sensitive guy with a big heart that does not believe random arguing ever solves a problem. My hearts desire in to find a special women that has the same desire of wanting to be loved and to return love without drama or chaos. and is committed to the relationship to solve any and all issues quickly and peacefully and also believes in the healing power of forgiveness after problems encountered in the marriage. believes the secret to a good marriage is accomplished by "Slow to anger and quick to forgive" I am looking to find a woman here on this Cupid website that is good natured and adventurous that would like to accompany me on this journey.
Matt
32 • Somerville, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hello Ladies! IF I DONT RESPOND it's because I am inactive here, My name is Matthew, but you can call me Matt! A few truths about me: First of all before the list: I AM 30 years old lol. Was born in 1994. Another thing I’m grateful for is my
Georgio
56 • Charleston, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
Quiet strength with a loyal heart and gentle hands
I’m a calm, grounded man who believes in love built on trust and care. I’ve worked hard in life, but I never lost the part of me that’s kind and protective. I appreciate peace more than noise, honesty more than charm, and a woman who values loyalty as much as I do. I’m looking for a gentle soul with a strong heart someone who wants real partnership, not just conversation.
Edwin
44 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hi
I don't look for adventure, sometimes it just finds me. Like when I was hiking on top of a waterfall at the Sequoia National Park in California and I saw this glimmer. I climbed higher to take a closer look and I realized it was nothing. I headed back down and I thought I'd peer over down the side of a cliff to see if I could jump down. That was a bad idea. Suddenly I felt the loose soil give way underneath me and I started sliding down. I tried grabbing on to some kind of small plant to slow my descent but it pulled right out of the ground and I took a landslide ride off the cliff leaving a cloud of dust in my wake. As I fell I hit my head on a rock and blacked out for a few seconds but luckily I came to and managed to land in a crouched position as I felt the adrenaline pump through my system. I tried to stand and walk but the sharp pain coming from my right ankle prevented me from managing anything but a pathetic limp. Later, what I thought was a sprained ankle turned out to be a fractured ankle and I was in a cast for a good few months. Looking back I can't say that "adventure" was worth it but if you look at it from one perspective: I took a ride on one of nature's slides, fell twenty feet and survived. Who knows, I might just be the only person in history to have had that happen to them at that particular spot. Guess I'm a lucky guy.
I am real
46 • Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
I need to get off internet dating...
Hard working, successful, good heart, loves to laugh, enjoys the little things in life. Love to travel and experience the world. I'm going to assume you made it this far because I'm not going to reply to anyone who doesn't ask me what my favorite flavor is. I guess I just love punishment that's why I'm on here trying to find a real profile while I dig through the fakes 😜If your phone doesn't work and you cannot video chat from time to time I'm not interested. I don't have time to send you money to help pay for bills either. At least meet me in person before you start asking for things 😃 I am divorced and have two children. I know there are plenty of single guys out there but if you are interested in me I come with kids for now haha
Dave
64 • North Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 55
Smoke: Don't smoke
Read my profile and if you like me drop me A LINE.
I am a gentle, kind, patient man. I like a peaceful home. I like conversation but do not like arguing. I don’t get angry, and love to laugh and play. I am skilled with my hands and my mind. I have a good job. I have many children that are mostly grown. What I don’t have is a wife to come live with me in the US. I live alone. I love sex, it is a favorite activity, but only after marriage , if it's not a favorite activity of yours we don't match. I was married for 31 years until she decided she didn’t want to be with me. If I like you, my children will like you. You will be part of a large, loving family. I speak English and Spanish and can read and understand Portuguese and Italian. I will learn your language, if you will teach me. I am looking for the woman who will be the most important person in the world to me, and will make me their most important person. I want someone to take care of, who will also take care of me. I exercise to get in shape and loose weight and want someone who will exercise with me. I love the outdoors, especially lakes, oceans, and beaches. I do not smoke or drink and don’t like being around people that do. I am christian and go to church every week and want someone who will go with me. I love children but can not have more myself. I would rather do things, than have things. I am very affectionate, I love hugging and kissing, and holding hands, even in public. Check out my pictures if you want to contact me
Michaol
43 • Flint, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for a great affectionate black girl 4 ever
(Update). I have over 4,600 messages and its very challenging to respond, and find the messages to reply. I apologize for my delayed response, I mean no disrespect. I'm Athletic, laid back, enjoy laughing and ready to meet that serious girl. Hoping to find an easy going, affectionate beige, brown, or black skinned woman for a long term relationship. There is nothing more important in this world than family to me. For the right woman, I will travel to Africa for our relationship. I don't believe in divorce. I would like my kids to be mixed black & white.
Alex
52 • Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 35
Smoke: Don't smoke
About Me Life has given me plenty of experiences,
Authentic man looking for peace. Life has given me plenty of experiences, and I’m grateful for all of them. I love staying active — biking, hiking, and scuba diving when I can get near the ocean. Wecht -aalixs. When I’m home, I’m just as passionate about creating — from tending my aquariums to building miniature rainforest waterfalls. Recently, I’ve been exploring the North Georgia mountains and finding new trails to enjoy.
Joe
64 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
Always-Faithful
I’m easy going, simple, down to earth, genuine, compassionate, affectionate, loyal, and a true romantic. I love sports, including martial arts, but non-active for many years. I love volunteer work to help others. Enjoy movies; walks in the park, get
Daniel
63 • San Ramon, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 51
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for a my Love to laugh at my bad jokes
I am retired, love traveling and different cultures, enjoy being in nature; hiking, biking and beach. I also enjoy good food with a glass of wine, For quiet times I like reading, music and watching Netflix while snuggling with my love and getting h
John
61 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 46
Smoke: Don't smoke
City boy with a country heart
I’m honest, loyal,strong but sensitive and someone that family and friends know they can count on. Family and true friends are my first and for-most priority. I've learned that money and opportunities come and go but unconditional love is for
Seth
45 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Smoke: Don't smoke
I prefer the subtle shadows of moonlight.
I’m an honest, genuine, and loyal person who will not hide anything from you. I’m gentle and generous, loving with my whole heart. I’m a relaxed and easygoing guy who loves nature and values family. I’m not perfect, but I hope you’ll accept me as I am. I enjoy exploring the city to find new restaurants, though I usually prefer staying home and cooking. I’m a bit of a beer connoisseur but I don’t drink or party much anymore. That said, I do enjoy the occasionally house party with friends and family. If you want to know more, just ask. I’m not looking for a nudes. If I messaged you, it’s because I have a genuine interest in getting to know you. Thanks for reading. I hope you have a blessed day and find the love of your life. ATTENTION SCAMMERS- I am not seeking professional services. Do not waste your time. I will ask for verification and you will not get what you seek.
Nathan
58 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 44
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for a long term relationship
I’m an honest, loyal man, looking for a honest, caring woman to spend my life with. I’m not here for fun. I’m here to find my soulmate. I’m looking for a serious relationship that lead lead the marriage. I’m not working anymore and have free time. I enjoy swimming and other exercise, studying, Bible study, and spending time with my Future lifelong partner/wife. I can be funny and a lot of fun to be with.
Blas
64 • Centennial, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 42
Smoke: Don't smoke
Good guy looking for one woman for
I am Old Fashioned and looking for that one special person. I am Monogamous and do not want to serial date, I like to hold doors, send flowers, and make you feel special. I will let you be independent, but at the end of the day we should be there for each other. I have two children, both out of state at college, I raised them for the past 6 years by myself sole custody. I try to go see them at least once a month. I miss going to the school events and running kids to practice, so if you have children I am not worried.
Roman
58 • El Paso, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 47
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for my ride or die partner
I’m honest, sincere and a gentleman. I expect honesty from the person I’m looking for to be with. I will never cheat on someone I love. My hobby and passion is racing cars. You must be able to accept that. Better yet if you can enjoy it with me that would be a plus. I would even teach you how to race and build cars if you liked it.
Steven
56 • Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 54
Smoke: Don't smoke
Seeking my soul mate. Let's chat and find out
I'm not a member and can't see your likes, message me please. i love to travel and would love to meet my Vietnamese partner for a long term committed relationship. I will be in Ho Chi Minh City later this year and think we could meet for lunch and
Chris
64 • Hillsboro, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 78
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking For A Good Woman To Complete My Life
I'm a kind-hearted and thoughtful gentleman who believes in honesty, loyalty, and meaningful connection. I enjoy good conversation, quiet evenings, and making the people I care about feel valued and supported. I’m emotionally mature, dependable, and ready for a committed relationship built on trust, respect, and shared dreams..
Anthony
46 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 41
Smoke: Don't smoke
Let me be the change that you are seeking
I am an American man looking for my Queen. I am looking for a women that is honest loyal that can be with me during the good times and bad. Someone with great family values which is very important to me. I am extremely hard working and have great val
Gmoney
58 • Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
Need a wife not a child ok no one under 50
i do me and can help her do her but understand don't ask me to send you some money until i know we are that item ok, and you need to know how to video chat or call me live young ladies please keep it moving note 48 or better lol ok if not keep it moving. be blessed my My Queens
DJ
43 • Pearl City, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
Smoke: Don't smoke
Why tiptoe through life to arrive safely at death?
If I don’t respond right away, it’s because I’m working on my 1968 Cutlass. Love me some good old fashioned American muscle cars, breakfast dates after Koko Head😍 love karaoke…karaoke king here🤴lol Country girls to the front of the line.😍 looking for a gym partner from 5am-7:30am and a paddling/hiking buddy…who knows…maybe even a gf lol
KANE
44 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
A Woman 💯 Open Minded ❤️😍💯 Good Personality
Ex-wife and I divorced 2009 , here now in San Diego commercial fishing starting soon 4 months💵 swordfishing , I want to meet an attractive Lady who is open minded fun to be with laid-back relaxed all the time just real 💯 down to earth sense of hum
Dave
41 • Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Smoke: Don't smoke
Are you there
Hi i am looking for a good person to get to know and maybe make something happen. I love to travel and would love to meet people. if you want to contact me ym you can try  and i would love to talk to you thereHello everyone and thank you for taking the time to visit me here. I am Dave and live just outside Boston by myself just me and my puppy, I know sad but my dog is great company. I work in the city of Boston dealing in real estate and mortgages and often work six or seven days a week since I do not have someone special to come home to. I love to be out doing things weather it is dining out cookouts travel or camping. I am not someone who sits at home watching tv. At times it would be nice to snuggle on the couch with a movie and popcorn though.  I can be a hopeless romantic to that someone special. I like to send flowers or surprise with a cute gift or a special weekend. You ask the type of woman I am looking for well I am a businessman and dress line it every day so suit and tie and I love it. I am that type that always needs to look good when out. I have do many clothes and shoes to match. I want a woman who also line to be dressed up nice and sexy to be out always. Takes pride on how she looks even though she would be my wife she still feels the need to dress special for me. I am also a lover. I love kissing and touching. Rubbing your back or holding hands while out. If you are with me I want to make sure the world knows how much I am In love. Now I also like a bit of a wild woman. Someone who lives being sexy for me and lines to push the limits at times. Do you know I am a very sexual person but I want my wife to be as well so we can explore things together. I like a woman who does not mind getting her s*xy ass spanked at times or will surprise me with some very sexy cloths when I come home from work. I like watching porn and even more exciting with a woman being s*xy with me. I do like a woman who likes watching porn too and gets excited over it So people ask why not have a woman here from the states. the woman here love to party and drink to much. To many gold diggers here and they just do not understand the value if family but instead love the word divorce. And at the slightest little problem they use it to try to control. I do not want that game. I want my wife and if there comes hard times to be able to work hard to get through it Life is short not to push everything you do to the limits and enjoy it. I am a very happy person and she will be to. Come join me on this amazing trip through life I am tired of doing it alone. Thank you for reading this and I hope to explore with you. Ohh by the way if you wanted to know my favorite color is green.
Daniel
56 • Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 46
Smoke: Don't smoke
No big drinkers & smokers 🙏🏼 I’m drama free, independent, loyal, compassionate, well traveled, a master martial artist, and US Army veteran. I enjoy eastern culture, art galleries, architecture, antiquing, beach, dining out, day trips, trave
Shane
47 • Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 36
Smoke: Don't smoke
Friendly, intelligent, high energy person who like...
I'm a strong friend who loves his family and has been blessed with a good work ethic. I recently got out of a long term relationship and decided to start exploring internationally. I'm the kind of man who truly values the little things in life—gentle hugs, soft kisses, and hearing “I love you” from someone who means it. Those small moments of love and warmth matter to me. I want to feel appreciated, supported, and reminded each day that I matter to the woman by my side.
Tod
74 • Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 72
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for you, are you looking for me?
The woman for me should be between 5’0”- 5’6” tall, speaks English and their native tongue, smooth skin, beautiful feet, thick dark brown or black, salt and pepper long hair, nice legs and are in proportion with her weight and height, flat stomach o
David
61 • Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 60 - 75
Smoke: Don't smoke
Ready to Meet the Right Woman
I'm a warm, respectful, and down-to-earth person who believes in love, loyalty, and good communication. I enjoy simple things in life—good food, deep conversations, travel, and making someone smile. I work hard, take care of my responsibilities, and value honesty. I'm here to find a real connection with someone kind, caring, and ready to build a future together. If you’re looking for something genuine, let’s talk! Just a Note: I'm here for a genuine connection and serious relationship only. If you're not real or you're here to play games, please stay away. I might ask for a video call early on to confirm we're both serious. Thank you for understanding. 😊
Danny
58 • Redwood, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hello everyone,
I enjoy many things I'm happy all the time. I enjoy exercise travel. music, art sports. I love being by the water I don't have any children. I am retired. I own my own home. I. Had. my own business for many years. now I'm ready to enjoy life with someone special. I enjoy nights at home as well. I am a true romantic at heart. I love to make my Girlfriend friend lover feel special.
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