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Richard
76 Redding, California, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 61
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Scott
55 Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 60
Education: PhD or Doctorate
I'm a professor in a Ph.D. program. I am retiring to travel, explore, be in nature, write, ... to basically "lose my mind and find my soul." I love cooking, reading, fitness, deep conversations, live music, theater, animals, gazing at stars. My life has taken many challenging turns the last three years, and I am now totally ready and excited to meet and fall in love with the person I will spend the rest of my life with. I'm deeply committed to self-reflection, growth, and continuously evolving emotionally, physically, spiritually, as a communicator, as a lover, and as a life partner. I am honest and faithful, and I appreciate my partner's honesty even when it's critical. My previous marriage lasted 27 years--for most of those years we were deeply in love. I know how to be in love and devoted to one person. I know how to deal with the inevitable ups and downs of life together. And I know how to love my partner as a whole person rather than expecting a fictional vision of perfection (which is not reality and therefore not perfect at all). I'm looking now for the person to spend (far more than) the next 27 years with. Could that be you? I have a 19 year-old daughter, adopted from Guatemala. She's been through some difficult, unfair times the past few years, but when she smiles she still lights up the room. She has graduated from high school and recently moved to Texas to live independently. I love her so much and am so proud of the woman she is becoming. My pictures are recent ... (1) April 2025 (2) July 2025 (3) July 2023 (4) September 2025 (5) October 2023 I am totally willing to move to my partner's country, or anywhere else in the world we choose to be.
Ray
53 Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Minh
50 San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 41
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Tom
76 Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 49
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Update: I have found someone wonderful. I am focussing my romantic efforts on her, hoping that our great start becomes a lifetime together. So now I am only looking for friends here. Good luck with your search. Also, since I found someone, I let my premium membership lapse, and can no longer read email here.   I seek a partner for friendship that will grow into a life-long romance. Ideally, that will include and children – mine, yours (if any) and ours. We will work together to have a wonderful family and good life. I balance work as an accounting professor with enjoying 50% custody of my young son. While I love my son, I am NOT looking for a nanny. Seeking romance across cultural differences and great distances is risky – for both man and woman. I will gladly take this risk if I find a woman who will devote herself to me, to my son, to her children (if any) and to our children. I will do the same. I am looking in the Philippines because of my understanding of your culture – a strong devotion to one’s and children, putting family first. At the same time, I seek someone with a good, well-trained mind. I seek an equal partner. That will encourage the regular communication that strengthens a , and well as the playfulness that makes it fun! I am only interested in monogamy. If someone has affairs, then either they are not cut out for , or there is something fundamental missing in the that should have been discussed first. I will work with my to make sure this never happens. I realize that the Philippines is predominantly Catholic. My religious background is Quaker and Unitarian. While I will respect your faith and will be glad to discuss differences in religion, please do not expect me to join your faith. I would be fine if our children are educated in both your faith and mine, so that when they are old enough they can make an informed choice. If you are a lady who hopes to find a man will put God ahead of the lady, I am not your man. I will not compromise my values. I try to live a good, moral life, helping others and being honest. But if I find someone special, she and my son will be first in my life. While I have a good income, please realize that the cost of living in the U.S. is much higher than in the Philippines. In almost all U. S. couples, both and work to support their good life. The image of a life of luxury and relaxation if you come to the U.S. is a myth. I am frugal in my day-to-day life, like driving a 10 year old car, so that I can spend freely on things that are more important to me, like my young son, and perhaps paying air fare to the Philippines if I meet someone special here. I think current photos are useful in communicating who we are. My photos are: June 2014, with my son on my shoulders August 2010, holding my son after finishing a half marathon February 2014, getting an award at an international conference of accounting professors and researchers.
Amanda
37 Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Male 24 - 41
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Jay
48 Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 52
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Matt
47 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: 45 - 80
Education: PhD or Doctorate
William
63 Anaheim, California, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 38
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Mattt
44 Palm Coast, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 42
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Kyler
44 Altoona, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 41
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Scott
68 Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 53
Education: PhD or Doctorate
William
53 Mount Vernon, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 46
Education: PhD or Doctorate
John
59 Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 49
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Constant
78 Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 80
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Anthony
54 Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 46
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Michael
27 Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Education: PhD or Doctorate
Joseph
41 Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Education: PhD or Doctorate

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