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Dave
45 Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 41
Occupation: IT / Communications
Gentleman, honest, sincere, kind, affectionate. That is short description of who i am. hi. im from austin, texas usa. I am nice but I am not stupid. I am kind hearted and gentle person but am not easily fooled. So please, if you want my attention, I only want someone who is not selfish, not materialistic, not obsessed with being noticed by everyone. Someone who reserves their beauty and sensuality for their mate, is more interesting to me than one who shows all online or to everyone on the street. It is fine to enjoy going out to dance and have fun, but if that is all you think of, I am not the one for you. I am interested in more important things, in helping others less fortunate, in helping those who have lost their parents etc. I do not want a selfish, materialistic, hedonistic person. I do want a kind hearted person in deeds and in words. Someone who will think of others first. IG Dave.delcastillo I am family oriented. Meaning I enjoy making plans with my own family, trips, outings etc. I want someone who values family, a faithful and dedicated husband. I expect my future wife to also be dedicated and loving. I am very self confident, goal oriented, and have a strong faith in God. I want someone who is kind, sincere, can appreciate a simple real love. Love full of respect, friendship , support, sexual desire, playfulness and most important long term commitment. I am kind but I am not stupid or a fool. Please do not make that mistake. If I see that you only are here to get money from chat and fake emails, then please do not waste my time. I am here for someone who actually wants to find a husband. I will provide everything you need, and that I can afford and will work very hard. But do not think I only want a materialistic wife in exchange for only physical relationship. Or that I am materialistic. I am not. You will not be happy with me if material things are what you really want in life. But if you want a committed, sincere heart that will love you until we both are old and die, then that is me. I will not leave you or forsake you as long as you are sincerely interested in making our relationship work and faithful. If you want someone who loves you with a sincere heart and wants to spend time with you, I make it for you. We can go out in evenings to dine at new places, parks, movies or anywhere you like. It can be a simple and romantic time together. But if you prefer to go out with girl friends dancing late night and forget that you are married, that is not what I am looking for. I expect we spend time together and not with other people. If that is your idea of marriage, to me , that is not marriage. Late night dancing and hanging out with friends is done before you are married. In my opinion, I believe in traditional marriage. I believe in dating your wife. To me that means we become best friends and like to spend time together. Again, it’s ok to have alone time, and see girl friends within reason. I want to make this point very clear. I expect we share our experiences and have fun. If you want to spend time with friends instead, then I am not interested in a relationship with you. Basically I want someone who will dedicate quality time and love and I will return the same. I do believe a woman should have her own career and i support that completely. I respect women but i think due to extreme feminism, women loose respect for men. Its ok to have equality, respect, self development. But there needs to be a balance of respected roles and respect for the husbands authority as leader, protector, and provider of home. I also cook too, i clean the home too. But there needs to be respect and not extreme liberty which causes too many problems. Just as i respect my home, i do not leave friday nights to drink, dance with friends without wife and come back the next morning. That is not right or fair for either party and no respect exists when that happens. Do you agree? If so contact me. You can get to know me more on FBook with user name daveinaustintexas I will respond and add you if you contact me there on my page. I hope to hear from a sincere, beautiful woman. One last note. Do not think because of good looks only you will win me over and i will spend money like a fool. No. I really am looking for a lifetime best friend, lover, and beautiful woman. Is this you? What do I like to do? I am a simple person. I enjoy conversation over tea in a cafe, with the person I love. I enjoy shopping, traveling, even if it is not very far. I like to try new things, new restaurants. And I also enjoy staying home, walking in a park holding hands and nice conversation on what is new in your day. Asking how you feel. Then lying in bed talking to each other telling funny stories or talking about random things. It is the simple things in life. I will respect and treat you gently. I will value your opinion and seek it. But you need not have two captains of a ship. A ship will crash in the ocean with two captains. This is what I believe. I believe in being best friends, lovers, and respectful. :) IG davidx Traditional relationships are difficult when there is no longer respect for a husband or each other. So this is why I do not want another American wife. That is why I am looking for foreign wife. Respect should not be lost regardless of culture or background. And someone with a rebellious nature will always find it difficult to have long relationships. It is my opinion. What do you think? Have a beautiful day and thank you for reading my profile ;)
John
52 Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 60
Occupation: IT / Communications
UPDATE 25 Feb 2020: My subscription has expired. I can no longer read email messages from standard (non-paying) members because I am also a non-paying member. If you are a paying member, please feel free to message me. First let me answer the question I get most frequently. What do you hope to get from this site? I am looking for my last girlfriend. I signed up for this app looking for someone in the USA. Certainly willing to talk to anyone all over the world. I am a professional. I work in healthcare IT. I used to travel a lot for work, but that changed in August of 2017. I worked as a Registered Nurse for a decade before turning to IT. I am financially and emotionally stable. I am in a good place in my life and I am looking for someone that has some similar interests to mine. I like to laugh and be around people that are non-judgmental of others. I like to be around all types of people so I can learn about cultures other than mine. I like outdoor activities (walking, hiking, biking,etc.). I like the arts. My favorite show is the Cirque du Soleil. Extra points if you know the next time this show will be in my area. I enjoy a plethora of other things (just ask if you are curious). I am loyal, helpful, encouraging, and honest. Turn Ons: Honesty, Integrity, Intelligence, Goals. Turn Offs: Halitosis, Drama, Pretending to be interested, You are only capable of a Monologue and not a Dialogue. In my free time, I spend time with my family. I like a good steak (especially in a group setting). If you are not into this, no problem. I have a grown son. He remains first in my heart. If you have children, I expect the same of you and will never ask you to put me before your kids no mater how old they are. I do like the Mark Manson philosophy on relationships. Google it if you have not heard of it. You should message me if... ...you are willing to meet someone from a dating website. I am amazed at the number people that are willing to talk or text, but are not willing to meet. ...you are willing to meet someone with flaws and who will accept yours. ...you are NOT ready to jump into marriage by the fourth date. Please read this one again because I am passionate about this. OK, I have to update this one now...I won't be ready to get married after only dating for 6 months either. When did getting married become the first step in the dating process? ...you are good at sarcasm, or are willing to try it out. If you are great at sarcasm, I might be willing to eliminate the marriage rule above :). ...you would like to get to know an amazing person (I will put you in touch with him - LOL). ...you would like to be treated with respect. ...you are non-judgmental. I will respect your opinions and you will respect mine. If your self-esteem is so low that you have to put others down or disrespect others for having their own opinions, likes, or beliefs, then we are not going to be a match. Swipe left, click X, move on, I won't make time for you. You should NOT message me if... ...your self-esteem is so low that you need to put others down for their opinions, preferences, or beliefs. I hope I have made this point VERY clear. Life is too short and I will be enjoying mine. ...you cannot articulate what you want in a relationship or from the person you are dating. And now for the $10,000 question. I get this question sometimes so I am just going to answer it here. What are you hoping to get from this site? Answer: A date. After all, it is a dating website. Ideally, I am looking for the last girlfriend I will ever have, but let's take this one step at a time. No time frame here. I am comfortable being single. It would be nice to have someone to share experiences with.

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