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Maverick
42 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Drink: Don't drink
Moving to SE Asia in October 2026!
I am single, no kids and financially free and will move to Thailand and the Philippines in October 2026! I have never been to Vietnam but hope to visit and would love to stay long-term if I find someone special. Basically, I am moving to SE Asia perm
John
38 • San Jose, California, United States
Seeking: 18 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
Comforting yet complex like a bowl of phở
Part science nerd, part ocean lover, part low-key foodie. By day, I work in healthcare at a major hospital—calm under pressure, organized, and surprisingly good at explaining complicated things in plain English. Long-term, I’m driven by curiosity, service, and a genuine love of learning (yes, I actually enjoy it). Outside of work, you’ll usually find me around the water. I’m a certified divemaster, fascinated by the ocean, and always up for a good adventure—whether that’s diving, traveling, or discovering a hole-in-the-wall spot with amazing food (Vietnamese is my weakness; I love it!). I’m thoughtful, loyal, and emotionally grounded. I value honesty, kindness, humor, and being able to talk about real things—but I also appreciate silly banter, inside jokes, and not taking life too seriously. Looking for someone who’s kind, curious, and comfortable being herself. Bonus points if you enjoy deep conversations, good food, or learning something new together. If you believe growth and fun can coexist, we’ll probably get along just fine.
Sam
63 • Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Drink: Don't drink
The One to Keep
Father of 2 great sons and 4 amazing grandchildren. Born and raised in Israel. Lived in NYC 23 years and relocated to Florida 7 years ago. Real estate developer/builder with interior and graphics design background. Strongly believe in family values, honesty, integrity, kindness and empathy.
Luiz
57 • Livonia, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 77
Drink: Don't drink
I am looking for a good woman to make my wife
As I sit down to express my thoughts, I am compelled to share with you the longing in my heart for genuine companionship and love. It’s not easy for me to admit, but despite being surrounded by the hustle and bustle of everyday life, I often find myself feeling profoundly lonely. As a single, divorced man with four wonderful adult children who have grown and started families of their own, I am incredibly proud of their accomplishments and the lives they’ve built. Yet, amidst their successes, I find a void that can only be filled by the warmth and affection of a loving partner. It’s not easy for me to admit, but despite being surrounded by the hustle and bustle of everyday life, I often find myself feeling profoundly lonely. As a single, divorced man with four wonderful adult children who have grown and started families of their own, I am incredibly proud of their accomplishments and the lives they’ve built. Yet, amidst their successes, I find a void that can only be filled by the warmth and affection of a loving partner. I yearn for a woman who will embrace me for who I am, flaws and all, and reciprocate my love with sincerity and unconditional affection. Someone with whom I can share life’s joys and sorrows, build cherished memories, and navigate the journey ahead hand in hand. My desire for companionship is not born out of desperation or fleeting emotions, but rather a deep-seated longing for a genuine connection. I am committed to offering the same level of love, respect, and support that I seek in return, understanding that true love thrives on mutual respect, trust, and unwavering devotion. So, if you are reading this letter and find yourself resonating with my words, I invite you to consider the possibility of embarking on this journey together. Please know that my intentions are sincere, and I am earnestly seeking a meaningful relationship built on honesty, loyalty, and shared values. Serious inquiries are welcomed and encouraged, as I believe that the pursuit of love is a journey worth taking with the right person.
JT
33 • Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 47
Drink: Don't drink
Một vị vua không có hoàng hậu, nàng ở đâu...
Tôi cao 6'2 và nặng 190lbs. Tôi là người lai (1/3 là người Mỹ da đen, 1/3 là người Mỹ bản địa và 1/3 là người Mỹ gốc Anh) SỞ THÍCH: ẩm thực cao cấp, thể thao, giữ dáng, xe hơi hạng sang, du lịch, trí thức, chiêm tinh học, chủ đề về UFO và người ngoài hành tinh, Star Trek và mọi thứ liên quan đến tâm linh.
Chauncey
59 • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Drink: Don't drink
Real Man looking for love
I'm a hard working man,college student, athletic love running ,cooking ,sports and working ,making new friends and I'm a one woman man.I don't want to be on this dating site long. Ladies please those one asking me to send funds. I don't do that. Thank you! God Bless You All.
Gregory
79 • Coppell, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 62
Drink: Don't drink
One Love Greg
Beyond his physical strength, Greg has a deep, reflective side. He’s not just someone who lifts weights—he lifts people up, too. Through his TikTok and YouTube channels, he shares his journey, offering encouragement to those facing their own struggle
Alphonso
53 • Biloxi, Mississippi, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 39
Drink: Don't drink
I am here
I am a Renaissance man and a tradionalist when it comes to how to treat a woman. I don't need to see your body to appreciate you as a woman. I believe it's the little things in a relationship that builds the strongest foundations. I am your rock, you
NEW
ronald
60 • Azusa, California, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 80
Drink: Don't drink
i'm looking for love again
I’m 60 years old, and I’d describe myself as a kind, honest, and down-to-earth man. I value loyalty, respect, honesty, and good communication. I enjoy the simple things in life good conversations, listening to music, watching movies, cooking, taking walks, and spending time with people I care about.
Tomas
57 • San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
Retired Military Man wants a woman who needs a man
I’m 57, fully retired, kind, loving, honest man. I enjoy the peacefulness of nature. I enjoy cuddling together watching a movie. Love to have coffee/tea. I prefer to spend more time at home where it’s safe and keep beautifying the yard and cooking. L
John
60 • Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
Nice Guy Lost in Bangkok
Hi, my name is John. I’m a retired international real estate executive. I’ve traveled to Thailand many times for work, and want to retire there. I have 4 grown sons, and am from New York. I enjoy art, visiting museums, reading, drinking coffee and travel. I am faithful and kind, and treat people with respect. I don’t drink alcohol or smoke, or gamble. I am looking for a professional woman that I can connect, communicate and share experiences with.
Big_N_Kuntry
56 • Little Rock, Arkansas, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 36
Drink: Don't drink
Not Interested in Crypto or Investing with You!!!
I’m a confident, grounded man who knows what he wants and is looking for a serious relationship that can grow into marriage. “I do not use WhatsApp, please do not ask or send me your WhatsApp information! I’m seeking a woman, ideally 45–60, who is f
shawne
53 • Youngstown, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 52
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for someone genuine
IMPORTANT!! If you’re a 1 SCAMMER don’t message me. If you’re3 thinking about asking me for money DON’T message me.3 If you have only one picture of yourself DON’T 0 message me. If you can only use 42 words in a sentence DON’T message me. Im NOT here to waste your time 3 or have mine wasted either. I am 29 years old live in the U.S. I enjoy meeting people, good conversations, 8 listening to or watching anything informative and educational. When I’m not working I enjoy listening to music, cooking, shopping, traveling and sleeping. 5 I am also family oriented so I try to spend as much time as possible with my parents, siblings, son and extended family.
harry
75 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Drink: Don't drink
Only interested in serious relationship
Master Chef, great since of humor.. I love to surprise my speciel someone.. all the time.also love keeping.. the relationship fresh and new all the time.. birthdays, holidays.. should be any day of the week. i'm a very hard working man.. a gentelmen at all times..i give 110%..i would like the same in return... doors will always be held open for you.. chairs will always be held for you..not a player..and not looking for one.. very honest.i'm a very passionant man. I have a high respect for woman.hopeing to find that very special someone 
Pete
60 • Woodland, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 51
Drink: Don't drink
A real honest one of a kind gentleman
I’m loyal loving caring honest faithful trustworthy understanding passionate respectful giving romantic funny who lives cuddling kissing holding hands shopping working out one of a kind gentleman I’m very ambitious family oriented nice car house and Job
Joseph
66 • Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
Love Latin culture
family oriented person looking for a female who seeks the same. There are many beautiful women in the world however beauty is not just on the outside it's what's on the inside as well and many can never have love in their heart because they don't have an open heart that is the type of person that I seek but for some reason it does not seem to come true people can't get over their instantaneous gratification their selfishness their being self-centered. For some reason there's many out there that do not understand there is no I in team play together you act as one and that's what a team does I love to have true conversation educational people can disagree and they can have views but the key is to articulate and that is how you communicate no one will ever agree 100% of the time this is normal people do not see through the same lens but the willingness to grow mentally and emotionally is very important and that is how a team functions
Teacher Franz
49 • Montpelier, Vermont, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 59
Drink: Don't drink
Please read all of my profile!
I am a 49 Year old manly man who is confident, ambitious, energetic, manly man who is a true leader of vision! I believe that I am a manly man, and a man of honor, and dignity! I am the foundation, the cornerstone, and the man adds values to people who work with, and especially under me(Servant Leader). A man is defined by his character, and how he takes care of his family, friends and those who are deserving either because of their character, or their need after "considering the cause of the poor". Everyday is good for me, even when it's not, because I am man!
Patrick
55 • Rochester, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 58
Drink: Don't drink
Tôi thích một người nói tiếng Anh tốt, vì điều đó
I am loyal, caring, loving and honest. If you’re a scammer or bot don’t waist your time contacting me. Also, don’t ask me for money. I will block you. I only want genuine people messaging me. It’s the world we live in. I have a huge heart that is full of love. I hope there is someone out there that can fulfill my heart. I do love to laugh as well. The kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt and you cry as the result. Good luck! I know there is someone out there for me. I truly believe that. ❤️
Wayne
55 • Brockton, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Drink: Don't drink
Romantic and ruggedly strong man looking for you!
Hi I’m a 55 year old divorced male from the Boston area and I’m looking for love with an attractive and kind woman.I am a very down to earth and non judgemental person and an animal lover and I’m looking for the same in a woman.I am in a period of my
Spencer
54 • Sunnyvale, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Drink: Don't drink
Mature,Loving,Man Ready to Cherish the Right Woman
I’m a loving, kind, and mature man who believes life is best when shared with someone special. I enjoy discovering new places to eat, exploring the world, and building lasting memories with the one I love. Whether it’s a cozy cabin in the snowy mount
Ric
68 • Kent, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 42
Drink: Don't drink
Rick
A military service veteran. extensively travelled my entire life. lived in several countries and States. I'm very independent and set in my ways and have no desire to change. Being myself has served me well over my 67 years. And I consider myself an absolutely great "Catch". A girl could do a lot worse than me.Any woman that has a bunch of "No answer " on her profile and only ONE picture is too lazy to have me. Don't waste your time liking me. I'm not interested.keeoing it real and 💯I have a live-in girlfriend and son. I'm keeping my family and you that's my position.
Benjamin
65 • Greensboro, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Drink: Don't drink
Face to face video chats. I need to see you.
I am a born again Christian who loves Jesus. I have a Master's degree in Chemistry. I draw abstract lines and shapes which are converted to abstract oil paintings under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. He also gives me the color choices for the sh
DJ
31 • Charleston, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for my Soulmate
Hello. I played several sports in High School and college, musically inclined to a degree, and a pretty funny guy. I don't have much, but still thankful that I have my friends, family, and my health. I have also become fully aware that nowadays, no matter where you go, there are tons of scammers and thieves out there, regardless of the website or app you're trying to search for you significant other. If you want to pursue a relationship with me, you'll have to send me a video of yourself stating who you are, and a slip of paper giving the date and time. I've blocked/reported more than 170 scammers during my online dating journey so far. I just want to find that special lady and be done with it.
Mark
62 • Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for someone to spoil
I'm an easy going gentleman who is very romantic and giving with the person I love. I’m a military veteran who served 12 years in the 82nd airborne division and still love to jump out of perfectly good aircrafts. I’m 6ft 3in (195cm)well endowed,blonde hair and blue eyes and maybe 61now but that doesn’t make me old, it just makes me more experienced. I love learning about different cultures, even it it means stepping out of my comfort zone. I have 3 kids who are all grown with families of their own. I love to cook which is very satisfying to me because I get more pleasure out of watching people enjoy my meal than I do eating it myself. I still stay active playing sports when I can find the time which is not very often because of my job.
Kevin
58 • Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Drink: Don't drink
Adventurous guy seeks life partner
Small town guy who moved to the big city. Kind, honest, like to make people laugh. Intelligent and artistic. Outdoor enthusiast, photographer, videographer and former professional actor. All my photos are completely natural. No enhancements whatsoever. One thing I’m trying to correct is my listed age. I’m not 58. I’m actually 68. I’ve sent my drivers license twice to verify but it’s still incorrect. My apologies.
Ryan
53 • Highlands Ranch, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
Hi, good day,.. fun, fit and adventurous
Pleasure to meet you. Fun, fit and enjoy most activities outdoors. Into healthy living and enjoy exercising. I love animals particularly cats. Have considerable amount of interests and love almost all music genres. My background is in law, very much into equal rights, civil rights human rights, woman's rights animal rights etc. I'm a humanitarian with a twist, another background is in the financial markets which is dancing with the devil it is what it is! Have a great zest and love for life, very down to earth, especially open-minded, love to expand my mind and learn. I'm very passionate and most things I do.. interested in finding that deep, genuine connection and relationship or long-term. I believe it's extremely important for two people to grow as one nurturing one's mind body and spirit. Being emotionally available is very important along with great communication. Sincerely, honesty and integrity additional pillars and foundations for a strong relationship. Very much interested in deep connection with a woman's mind. Supporting her goals, ideals, hobbies interest and passions. I believe it's very important to reciprocate as to each other as no two people are exactly alike. Looking to live a life.. continue journey of Life exploring all what life has to offer, would love to travel and explore. Thanks for visiting. Warmly, Ryan
Robin
57 • Layton, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
Chance For Adventure!
I have an unusual and uncommon set of life experiences. Not to be unhumble, but I'm definitely smarter than the average bear, so expect a wide and deep range of knowledge. I've worked in military intelligence and counterterror. I've been a history
Paul
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Drink: Don't drink
Looking 4my forever on the religion I am spiritual
If your not Ukrainian do not contact me as I am not interested.i am only interested in Ukrainian only.I am NOT here to send money so never ask I am here to find my partner in life she can’t be loser no one wants a loser asking send $50 bucks or whatever not here for that.i am spiritual but if your religious that’s fine with me that’s great as long as your fine with me too😘 I know it’s 2025 but I still want to believe that love is possible and we both can get the most out of life.
Chris
55 • Reading, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 85
Drink: Don't drink
GIVING THIS A TRY
I'm a calm and emotional aware man who values depth over drama, consistency over chaos, an d connection over convenience More about me? I'd say i'm someone who finds joy in the simple things of life- quiet mornings, good conversations, feeling safe in someone's presence, and moments where you can just be without judgement. I'm happiest when there's emotional connection, when i feel seen and valued for who i truly am What excites me? The idea of building something meaningful with someone who understands the balance between strenght and softness. Deep, thoughtful exchanges, shared laughter, and the subtle yet powerful energy of mutual respect and chemistry- that's where the magic is for me I'm open-minded and always learning. I believe that every connection teaches us something, and i welcome that with a full heart and a calm spirit
Ed
29 • Riverside, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
NO WOMEN WITH TATTOOS! NO watsapp,NO FAT WOMEN!!
Single, never married, and no children. I am an Evangelical christian. But I still hope to have a couple of kids in the future. I never drank alcohol and never smoked anything in my life. I have always lived a healthy life style. I always exercised
Chan
67 • Winter Haven, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 56
Drink: Don't drink
Tìm Bạn Tâm Giao, cafe, ẩm thực, du lịch movie...
Tôi đang tìm kiếm những yên bình, ấm áp những tháng ngày còn lại sau bao năm tháng bôn ba nơi xứ người. Cần một người bạn tâm giao tâm đắc trò chuyện, du lịch thưởng ngoạn trao đổi quan niệm khộng ràng buộc , suy tính , đơn thuần là tri kỷ tri âm . thế thôi
ocean
68 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 69
Drink: Don't drink
looking for friendship or marriage
I am Asian and mix. I am looking for a serious, romantic relationship leading into marriage i am friendly, loyal, honest, trustful, romantic, i stay active with yoga and love hiking and on my Friday nights i like to spent cuddling i have a good hear
Mike
37 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 43
Drink: Don't drink
Interested in marriage only
Hello everyone I am Mike nice to see you everyone i live in United States work as software programmer here looking girl for marriage I like mostly😊 travel 🧳 cooking 🍳 Swimming beach 🏖️ Learn different countries culture better to know each other real Thank you for visiting my profile
Gregory
31 • Mount Vernon, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
Intelligent American Male
Would love to meet a very pretty, English speaking woman between the ages of 21 and 50. Honesty is most important for me and for you, and open minds and open hearts are musts ! I am educated, good looking and honest always treating you with respect and love. You should do the same for me !
Milton
72 • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 46
Drink: Don't drink
WONDERFUL MAN/BUENO HOMBRE
I am a former pro basketball player now in the entertainment industry with a local TV show. I also own a travel agency.I am a fun person, who is and have traveled all over the world. Iam honest, loyal, and a very giving person. I like for MY lady to be spoilied and I love children.

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