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Nuno
42 Boston, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 53
Drink: Don't drink
WHATSUP IS +FOUR FOUR SEVEN FOUR SIX SIX SIX SEVEN NINE THREE EIGHT ZERO SEVEN Dear Profile Viewer, ''Thank you for your visit and for looking at my profile.'' I AM NOT HERE PROMISING ANYTHING; I AM HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS. RELATIONSHIPS? -I HAVE NO IDEA. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A QUICK RELATIONSHIP,;I AM NOT HERE FOR THAT, SORRY. I BELIEVE THAT 'FRIENDSHIP' IS THE BEST CONNECTION TO HAVE. (TO BE HONEST, FRIENDSHIP IS FAR BETTER THAN NOTHING AT ALL.) Anything can happen; all is down to the impetus you put into the communication you have with your prospective partner. Find-me on what's up with me- +four four seven four six six six nine three eight zero seven I am not a writer, but what I am writing here is about myself and I am being as honest as I possibly can. My name is Nuno Miguel, 43, single, I've never been married and currently living in a small town called Boston, which is in a county called Lincolnshire, England. I work for a local station as a ''Cleaning technician'', which is basically catering for the needs of cleaning the ins/outs of a building. I am a person who is Genuine, Expressive, Respectful and someone who tries to get along with other people from other countries. I think communication should be the first goal before a person develops any relationship with someone else. (I am saying it because it is the best way forward before any emotional development can be achieved. ( I AM NOT PROMISE ANYTHING TO ANYONE THAT I CANNOT PROMISE TO MYSELF, I LIVE LIFE ACCORDINGLY AND I DON'T MAKE ANY PLANS AS THEY NEVER FOLLOW THROUGH) The development is ongoing and communication will either unravel the truth of whether a relationship is possible or only friendship. (which is also a good way to know someone, their values, beliefs, likes & dislikes). Desperation is something that does not fall on me. I have never been in a serious relationship, I do not have any kids, so I am single. It is not a personal choice, but I have not found a woman who can understand the person I am. I have been let down a few times in the past and because of that I am cautious. However, I came to realize that shutting myself down is not the right choice; when someone does that, opportunities of finding a special person will go away and never come back. That is true. It is normal to have days like that; there are times when we keep ourselves to ourselves, and there are days when we are alive, feeling energetic etc. I have been feeling like that, but it's okay to be like that. Every single person around the world has the right to be in a serious relationship and be happy, however, love is possibly an amazing feeling which allows you to develop yourself, your inner being becomes more in tune with the world and you develop even more along with the person you are interested in. If I was to have a serious relationship, I would have to have the physical structure, such as ''stability'', which is something I am unable to offer due to the choices I have made in life and the consequences that are being felt to this day, THAT IS WHY, DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE HARD TO ACHIEVE, THAT IS WHY I CANNOT PROMISE ANYTHING. I AM UNABLE TO OFFER STABILITY. The step above has to be taken into consideration because a woman would rather have a man with a ''foundation'' than with no foundation at all. I am just being honest. I would have to reorganize myself, as I am a very complex individual, I have qualities, but I also have negative points- I am unorganized, disheveled and someone who is insecure, as I have been let down a few times, I have not secured stable employment, and that is something a woman looks for in a man, a stable base where both can work together. STABILITY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND I THINK IT IS RIGHT, IF A WOMAN WANTS STABILITY, THEN BOTH CAN WORK TOGETHER, UNLESS, SHE IS LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO IS RICH, WEALTHY, WITH A HOUSE, A STABLE JOB ETC, I DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING LIKE THAT. I have to learn how to be more confident with myself, be positive and look forward to a better future. The past may be stopping me from going forward with my future, but I am hoping to start afresh, with a clean slate and learn how to be a better person. I believe that age is not a problem or distance, but you have to look into everything from a practical perspective that is practical. Age is just a number which does not stop a person from developing feelings for someone older, however, if you are 20+ and you fall for someone older who has no financial stability and is complex, would you still attempt to pursue such a relationship? IT IS UP TO THE INDIVIDUAL. Love does not pay the bills, but, if both work together for a common purpose, anything is possible. DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS CAN WORK AND MAY NOT WORK, ALL IS DOWN TO THE INDIVIDUAL AND THE WILLINGNESS THEY HAVE TO TAKE IT FORWARD. Distance also comes into play, I am not saying that distance is a huge problem, however, you have to consider whether the time and effort you put into it is worth pursuing, Someone once told me-What is the point in pursuing a relationship online and when that person is so far from you! You better find a woman who is local and around your age or someone who is from your own country. I said-Going out might not work, and being online can offer that opportunity I am looking for, and whether it works or not, at least, such experience will be enlightening. Whatever life brings, I will always be pleased for every experience I am involved in. I am currently living with my mother Maria, she's 62 and at present she is at home as she had a major operation (JANUARY 2024), to remove her cancer, I hope she makes a quick recovery and improves her health. I have 3 brothers-Victor aged 39, Marcelo 41, & Valter aged 45 and 2 half-brothers- William who's 22 from my mother's side and Max who's 23 from my father's side. I have 3 nieces-Lara, Ana clara & Eva, and a nephew called Michael. Marcelo, Valter and William live in Boston, Lincolnshire. I am hoping that my brother William gets his foundation degree in Graphic design. He is also thinking of studying for his final year here in Boston to complete his Degree. I am an individual who has an independent mind per se. I enjoy having conversations on any subject that may come to light, such as: Politics, humankind, Religion and so on, even though I am not religious. My physical characteristics are that of an average man-brown eyes, brown hair, no beard, 1'75 meters in height and 100 kgs in weight. I am not really bothered if someone calls me this or that, as I am not the one with the problem.The problem is the person who criticises me for no reason. I am no prince charming and I have no intentions of becoming one. A Prince charming can be snobbish, pedantic, indifferent towards others, their feelings, and is disrespectful towards others. I don't not think like one, I am me, myself and I. The world is filled with gentlemen whose intentions are to lure women with their beauty, charm and charisma. I am a man who is not a show-off, I'd rather be myself than being someone I am not. I am imperfect and that is who I am, I have a lot of faults, but I also have other qualities. I am not a liar, I am not dishonest, I have never robbed anyone and I never took anything from anyone. If someone was to call me a liar, I would be really fuming, because I am not one and I have never been that. As you can see, this is like a book that I am writing about myself, my life and those who live around me. I am an open book, I have nothing to hide and my policy is-Be yourself, Do not hide anything from anyone. I hope that what I wrote doesn't make you feel bored. I am writing about myself, I am not here to convince you or anyone else. Honesty is the best policy. Here are other facts about me: 1-I was raised as a Roman Catholic, baptized in a small city called Aveiro, Portugal. I am not religious, but I have my ups and downs with religion and its doctrine. I don't have any problems with those who are religious. Sometimes, religion helps you make sense of the world around you, but if someone was forcing me to believe in something, I would just say-Stop in making me believe in something that I am not comfortable with. I believe in whatever I want, and if you do not like a person who has a different perspective in life, then, you can move on. 2-I have been single most of my life and it is normal here in the U.K and in Europe to be single. There are times when those who have a single status have been criticised for living a life with no-one. I just tell them-I live life according to myself, I am the one who imposes my own laws, rules and I can do whatever I want. It is not that I have not tried to be involved in a relationship with a lovely woman, it is just that she has not come, the right woman has not come. I am not fussy, but you don't want to meet someone and end up not having anything in common. I am not here to find any money diggers, time wasters etc, I do not have any money for myself other than for those who ask me for it. 3-I do not have any kids and probably I may not want to have them as I am too old and I do not have the stability to offer. Age should not be a hindrance in having kids, but in my case, I do not have the stability and I do not have the means to have them. That's my honesty. If your goal is to have kids, then, I am not the right party. I am just being honest. People can change their mind, but I really have no idea. 4-I do not drink, unless during special occasions-Birthdays, Christmas etc. I do not smoke, never liked the taste or smell. 5-My education is the same as High school level, I have a National vocational qualification Level 2 in Electricity/Electronics. I did not have much practical experience as the course in question did not offer the practical experience I wanted. I do not have a y degree. Education in the U.K is too expensive, like, just to study for 9 months in the University would cost around 10.000 pounds, that is so expensive. I believe in Education can bring good things, but I would not pay that amount of money a year. 6-I have been working as a Cleaner on an on/off basis, it is not a great job, but it pays the bills and allows me to help myself and my mother. 7-I am originally from Portugal, but my father was born in Angola and I also have cousins and an aunt living in South Africa. I also have a niece whose name is Ana Clara, she is 19. She was born in Brazil, but lives here in the U.K, 8-I have been to a few countries-Brazil, Bolivia, Philippines, Indonesia, Iceland, Luxembourg, Germany, Venice in Italy, Malta, Spain, Singapore, Paraguay, Dominican Republic. I am hoping this year to travel, but I am not sure where to go. 9-I wear casual clothes, I am not into clingy clothes and I wear clothes that are comfortable. I do not have any style in sight at all. People tend to have some style, but I don't. Casual clothes is my thing 10-Thank you for your interest and if you would like to know more about me, well, you just have to ask. Right, this is all for now, thank you so much for reading my profile and if you have any questions, do not hesitate in sending me a message.

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