Login

Meet Vietnamese Singles

Review your matches for free
Access to advanced messaging features
Trusted site backed by Cupid Media
An Outside Of The Box CRITICAL THINKER

Kingsley
Platinum Member
Verified
Last active: 2 hours ago

71 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Male / Divorced / ID: 3428412

Seeking Female 20 - 30 living in Vietnam For: Long Term Relationship

Last active: 2 hours ago

Overview

Kingsley

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Finance / Banking / Real Estate
Any

Member Overview

Recently retired from an illustrious career in Investment Banking. Have been ready for awhile when the right girl comes along to start a family.... thereby beginning the next chapter in my life. Married my childhood sweetheart. Separated in 1999 and finally divorced in 2011. Yeah! No! It's NOT a ...
Recently retired from an illustrious career in Investment Banking. Have been ready for awhile when the right girl comes along to start a family.... thereby beginning the next chapter in my life. Married my childhood sweetheart. Separated in 1999 and finally divorced in 2011. Yeah! No! It's NOT a typo. My selection is country specific for a life-partner. ~ My BIO ~ I am an INFJ. The world's rarest personality type as defined by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Teochew by ethnicity. A Born Again Christian. Spent my childhood in Singapore and Australia. Have been in North America since 1975. My height and weight are 5' 6" and 126 lbs respectively. ~ My Personality Profile ~ - My LIFE ETHOS has always been, when making All LIFE-ALTERING decisions, is to project Thirty Years Forward. From there, to take the PATH of LEAST REGRETS, which usually leads to CORRECT CHOICES - This writer is NOT A Philosopher but a MASTER OF BEING. A Philosopher thinks but A Master Of Being does not think. THINKING IS A TOOL But BEING Is Something That Supersedes Any Tool ~ CULTURAL Adaptability ~ Excitement comes to mind. Inquisitiveness and Adaptability are my CORE strengths. Imagine instilling the qualities, of my further Life Partner and my innate qualities, as Living LEGACIES, to our kids. That, my friend, is INTOXICATING ~ My Sense of HUMOR ~ You can best describe me as an ambiverted POLYMATH, who is young at heart that sees the world through a Lens of HUMOR, at WORK or PLAY ~ My Favorite Book ~ A Nuanced and Penetrating question. I STRUGGLED    My Intellect quenches on Investment Banking books, like Nomi Prins COLLUSION, to Piketty's INEQUALITY, to Harari's SAPIENS, BUT my spirit THIRSTS The Spirit Of The Living GOD, The ONE That Raised CHRIST From The Dead, LIVES In ME. In my solace, I repeatedly turn, to The Holy Scriptures, for LIVING WATERS  ~ My Favorite Movie ~ From Schindler's List to Jurassic Park, it has always been, the CINEMATIC and the CRAFT, that draws me That is where, I first learned to LISTEN, to my INTUITION and developed my SKILL SET at STORYTELLING, and honed in on my craft, as a SCREENWRITER-FILMMAKER All thanks, to the body of work, left to us, by the Master Storyteller himself, Spielberg ~ My FAVORITE Foods ~ A MISNOMER ~ NON Indulgent Foods, to DIE FOR ~ That would be an infrequent order of Popeye's Chicken. A sporadic Sushi meal, due to Mercury Toxicity and included also, for good measure, an in-season DURIAN FEAST Academic Papers from Leading Geneticists, at Anti-Aging Research Laboratories, HAVE TO BE CREDITED, for shaping my lifestyle choices, in the past THREE DECADES ~ My Final WORD ~ ~ We Are Living in Interesting Times ~ - The questions might be the same BUT the answers have changed. What got you HERE will NO LONGER get you there
more

Seeking

I am IMPRESSED that you are still reading ... In Business Negotiations, Mergers & Acquisitions, my counterpart is MY PARTNER. I try early on to find out what YOUR NEEDS ARE. From there, I tend to lay most of my cards, FACE UP to begin the conversation. ~ My INSIGHTS ~ - There is a lot ...
I am IMPRESSED that you are still reading ... In Business Negotiations, Mergers & Acquisitions, my counterpart is MY PARTNER. I try early on to find out what YOUR NEEDS ARE. From there, I tend to lay most of my cards, FACE UP to begin the conversation. ~ My INSIGHTS ~ - There is a lot of space between saying Yes and No - Saying No, Is BOTH Safety And Protection - Once Someone Feels Protected, They Will INTERACT With YOU ~ Fear Of Loss Is The 1 Reason That Drives Our Decisions ~ Most People Do NOT Like To Be Laughed At ~ RIDICULE and SHAMING Affect Us. It HURTS ~ TRUST Is The KEY. You Earn Trust. It is NOT A Given ~ What Am I Seeking In A LIFE-PARTNER ~ - The Foremost and the Primary Is, INTEGRITY, followed by CHARACTER - Then, I screen for INTELLIGENCE as the secondary - This Is Important. Intelligence WITHOUT Integrity and Character Is ~ A Weapon Of Mass Destruction ~ - INITIATIVE or Energy is the next Quality I look for ~ Let Me SUM It Up ~ - People walking in Integrity deliver on their WORD and set a GOOD example - A person of Integrity is an Open, Honest and Ethical Communicator. It Builds TRUST and Increases VALUE - Positive Attitude of high integrity people stay Calm and Positive during tough conversations - They Are Firm and Sets Boundaries during disagreements and conflict - Their Words Match and is Consistent with their Actions thus building TRUST in their Judgments and Decisions - People of Integrity hold themselves Accountable. They treat everyone Fairly with Respect and Dignity ~ Next ~ - Inquisitiveness and Adaptability are important qualities - Be Really Good at Constructive Disagreement - NO Yelling Policy, Raise Cool Headed Kids - Punishment Is NOT Helpful ~ It Builds Fear, Resentment, Lying and Avoidance ~ - Instead, EMBRACE Radical Transparency and Truth ~ Be Authentic ~ Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say ~ Constructive Dialogue ~ Disagreements are Positive, Normal and Necessary part of building, GREAT RELATIONSHIP ~ ~ Disagreements Are Different than Conflicts ~ - Disagreements become Conflicts when one or both parties perceive a threat to HIS or HER well being - When ignored, disagreements can become conflicts that TRIGGER strong Emotion - With both disagreements and conflicts, we tend to view the difference through OUR OWN perceptions and misplaced perceptions - Disagreements and conflicts, when Handled Constructively, are Opportunities to Build, an EVEN STRONGER Relationship ~ The Decision Making Process ~ - Decisions are brought about by Respecting each other’s Opinion and having the ability to have a Constructive DIALOGUE - It is where, We BOTH have the Opportunity to LEARN from each other's Strength, rather than purely LOVING EACH OTHER ~ Our Mission Statement. What Do WE Want To Achieve ~ Listen for Understanding by Questioning to ENSURE UNDERSTANDING - Let Go of the past and Be MOTIVATED to LEARN - Important to Pick Battles, WISELY - ALWAYS THANK each other for Disagreeing ~ Do NOT Shy Away From DISAGREEMENT ~ When used constructively, Diversity of Opinion brings out VALUABLE Solutions to Problems, which you and I, otherwise, May Have NOT Known EXISTED ~ RISKS ~ Failure - Premature Death. Unhealthy Lifestyle - War And Famine On Our Home Soil. We Are Homeless, Penniless, Living In A Refugee Camp Waiting To Be Evacuated - My Spouse And Our Kids Were Unable To Acquire Any Life Skills - We Were Unable To Navigate Through The Next Two Decades Of CHAOS Of Increased INEQUALITY And Global DEBT (Government, Corporate And Consumer) ~ HOPE ~ The Bright Side - In Major CRISIS, Where There Is Blood in The Streets, It Produces Great DANGER and Unlimited OPPORTUNITIES - At All Times BE ANTI-FRAGILE. Maintain A Diversified, Risk Adjusted, NON Co-related Investment Assets Strategy - Keep Acquiring New Skills. If You Are NOT Growing, You Are Declining And Falling Behind ~ Final Words ~ If You Made It This Far, I am Impressed. You Are Probably an INFJ or its compatibles If You Made It This Far Because Most Other Types Would Have Given Up By Now. Thank You! For Your Time, Kind Attention and Interest.... My Story, My Message, Just For YOU With Blessings In His Name, - Kingsley
more

More About Me

Kingsley

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
71
20 - 30
Lives in:
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Vietnam
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Not sure about relocating

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
Any
Weight:
57 kg (125 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Asian
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Finance / Banking / Real Estate
Any
Employment status:
Other
Any
Annual income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Verified
Canada
Vietnam
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Vietnamese
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Vietnamese ability:
None
Fluent
Religion:
Christian
Any
Chinese sign:
Ox
Any
Star sign:
Leo
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Camping / Nature, Cooking / Food and Wine, Investing / Finance, Library, Music (Listening), Reading, Science and Technology, Writing

Food:

Seafood, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Vietnamese

Music:

Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Pop, Religious, Soft Rock

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ My FAVORITE Movie ~

Favorite Book:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ My FAVORITE Book ~

Favorite Food:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ My FAVORITE Foods ~

Favorite Music:

To Be Uploaded Soon

Humor:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ My Sense Of HUMOR ~

Hobbies & Interests:

To Be Uploaded Soon

Travelled:

To Be Uploaded Soon

Cultural Adaption:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ CULTURAL Adaptability ~

Personality:

See OVERVIEW. Listed Under, ~ My Personality Profile ~

CupidTags
Click on the CupidTag to view members who have tagged themselves with this word. To add one of these CupidTags to your own profile click on the '+'

Safety Tip - Beware of fake photos

Some scammers from Ghana, Nigeria, Russia or other countries will email or share fake photos with you. Always request as many photos of the person as possible and try to receive photos in many different situations such as at home, at work, at events, with other people etc. Most scammers will send only a small number of photos and usually photos that are not in a group setting. It is very important to also verify the appearance of the person by chatting on webcam.