The Queen of Hearts is Always My Best Bet

Spike (67) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 102085
Buffalo, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: PhD or Doctorate
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Self Employed

I am told that I am fun to be with. I have been told that I am "something else" and that that is a good thing. I am a creative thinker and my creativity applies to everything including the bedroom. :) I tend to intuit my way to my decisions and therefore "chemistry" is the real starting point. Profi...read more >>

I am told that I am fun to be with. I have been told that I am "something else" and that that is a good thing. I am a creative thinker and my creativity applies to everything including the bedroom. :) I tend to intuit my way to my decisions and therefore "chemistry" is the real starting point. Profiles, age, education, etc. are all secondary to chemistry. Important but secondary. I am a man of integrity and my word is important, at the same time, I will let the 'bad boy' in me come out and play with the one who chooses to walk with me. My two daughters tell me that their two brothers and I have spoiled them in terms of what they are looking for in men. When asked to clarify they tell me: " Well it is our experience that there are basically two kinds of men - those who are "Manly men" but are jerks or they are Sensitive, compassionate men but are wusses. Their brothers and I, we are told, are the best of both. We are strong (emotionally & physically), athletic, rugged with a broad range of 'manly" abilities and interests, intimate (in a man's sense of this word) while at the same time, sensitive, compassionate, tender, intimate(in a woman's sense of this word), good communicators listeners, cooperative, a team player, etc. I agree. I am both. Why I even like 'chic flicks!:)' I am a veteran of the US Marine Corps, and have spent most of my career working in areas of human development and human service, helping/coaching others. Those who know me best tell me that I am one of the strongest, most courageous, creative, & humoress persons they have ever known. I'm not sure I would agree with all this, but I will take the compliment and I am my own authentic person. I'm unpretentious, down to earth, and real. I'm intelligent, direct, warm, loving, supportive, approachable, nurturing, flexible, and naturally sexy. And Oh yes, and my children tell me that their friends think I am really "cool." I'm not sure if that means I relate well to people across generations or that I just haven't grown up yet. Perhaps a little of both: that's a good thing. Enough of this, I am really adverse to talking about myself. I tend to be self-effacing

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About Spike

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 67 30 - 50
Lives in: Buffalo, New York, United States Any
Relocate: Not willing to relocate Any
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Hair color: Brown Any
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Eye color: Blue Any
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Height: 5'6" (168 cm) 4'11" (150 cm) - 5'4" (163 cm)
Weight: 73 kg (161 lb) 40 kg (88 lb) - 115 kg (253 lb)
Body style: Average Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
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Appearance: Attractive Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Any
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home Any
Number of children: No Answer Any
Oldest child: No Answer Any
Youngest child: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: Not Sure Any
Have pets: No Answer Any
Occupation: Self Employed Any
Employment status: No Answer Any
Income: No Answer Any
Home type: No Answer Any
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Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Any
Education: PhD or Doctorate Any
Languages spoken: English Any
English ability: Fluent Any
Vietnamese ability: None Any
Religion: Christian Any
Chinese sign: Don't Know Any
Star sign: Don't Know Any

I am looking first for the chemistry-if that's there then some of the rest will be there also. My match would be similarly balanced. Like my daughters she would be independent while choosing intimacy and relationship- in other words not "needy." Likewise, I don't expect someone to make me happy(as ...read more >>

I am looking first for the chemistry-if that's there then some of the rest will be there also. My match would be similarly balanced. Like my daughters she would be independent while choosing intimacy and relationship- in other words not "needy." Likewise, I don't expect someone to make me happy(as if anyone could MAKE another happy)-but someone to share happiness with. She would be as content to be alone as to be in a relationship. She would be as comfortable in jeans and T shirt as dressed to the nines. Sort of a "tom boy." Not afraid to get her hands dirty and able to change her own tires and light bulbs if needed-though she wouldn't NEED to if she were with me. Someone who can journey on her own, but would like to have someone journey with her. Someone who has strength of character but

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